Do you know you might be an annoying husband?
There are times when your wife finds you very irritating and annoying. The funny part is you are absolutely clueless that your behavior makes her feel you are hard-hearted and insensitive.
As a man you are very practical. So you invariably fail to understand the emotional needs of your wife. You do certain things which makes her very resentful and aggressive towards you.
Are you an annoying husband? Top 10 irritating habits your wife dislikes
1. You are too criticizing
- You keep on making comments about your wife – mostly negative.
- You make not so funny comments about her cooking.
- You make fun of her disorganization as if you were perfect.
- You are also quick to make derisive comments about her dressing.
Your negative criticisms makes your wife fume with frustrated anger.
2. You are a fitness freak
You are such a fitness freak that you are too concentrated on your body.
- You count your calories when you eat and your poor wife does not know what to cook.
- You force your addiction on your wife and keep a critical watch on her diet.
3. You are too lazy
You think household chores is not your duty.
- You lazily plumb yourself before the TV while your wife watches you with suppressed anger.
- You strew things around and never bother to clean it up.
- You literally hide yourself behind the newspaper while your poor wife slogs and sweats with her never-ending household chores.
4. You flirt
You ogle at girls while you are with your wife.
- She would have tolerated if you were casual in the way you look at girls. But you are too intense in your stare.
- You make idiotic comments when conversing with her friends and think you are humorous. But your wife sees through you. She knows you are trying to impress the girls with your stilted wit.
She wonders why you never bother to show your humorous side to her.
5. You do not care about your appearance
You make scathing comments about the appearance of your wife.
But have you ever looked in the mirror?
- You are pot-bellied and rotund.
- You roam about the house unshaven and grubby. But you want your wife to be presentable.
- She is angry that you have the audacity to degrade her appearance without noticing your unkempt look.
- She is edgy when you make degrading comments about her physique forgetting that you too are overweight.
6. You never listen
You turn a deaf ear while your wife is talking to you.
- You show your plain disinterest by looking elsewhere when she is conversing with you.
- You make your indifference very obvious by being wooden and stiff.
You fail to understand the hurt you inflict on your wife. The topmost annoying habit she hates in you.
7. You are a video games\internet\social media addict
You are addicted to the latest modern technologies so much that you do not spend quality time with your wife.
- You spend hours chatting with your friends in the social media.
- You completely ignore your wife when your favorite sports is telecast.
- You prefer to browse the internet than talk with your wife.
This makes you an annoying husband, doesn’t it?
8. You are a mama’s boy
You still haven’t cut your umbilical cord.
- You compare the cooking of your wife in lesser light with that of your mother’s.
- You recite whatever happens at home to your mother.
- You make degrading comments about your wife before your mother while she literally wants to hit you.
9 You spend too much time with your friends
You spend lots of time with your friends than with your wife.
- You laugh with your friends while you show your grumpy side to her.
- You invite your friends for dinner\lunch without consulting her.
- You force her to cook favorite food of your friends.
- You make fun of her cooking before your friends which angers her no end.
Hallmark of an annoying husband.
10.You never satisfy her sexual needs
You do not understand that your wife too has her own sexual needs.
- You fulfill your lust without caring about the satisfaction of your wife.
- You are easily satisfied. But your wife has to be emotionally aroused to enjoy sex. But you never care about it.
You point accusing fingers at your wife that she is annoying, don’t you?
Ask her.
She has a lengthy complaint list about you. She is confirmed that you are an annoying husband.
Do you possess these annoying habits?
Rectify yourself. Otherwise your wife might turn shrewish to show you what she thinks of your snobbish behavior.
sree says
Hi,
My middle aged husband is too friendly to a female coworker almost 15yrs younger than him. He calls her as princess, sweetie pie etc. He says i should think of his princess as our daughter or as his sister . He is on chats with her and goes to just listen to her vent when she feels down and to make her feel better. We have had arguments and fights due to this. He does not understand me and says i am acting like the jealous and insecure wife. How do i cope when he wont listen or respect my feelings ?
Mathi says
sree,
Your husband is exceeding his limits. You cannot think of someone as your daughter just because he likes her. Being friendly is OK. But overlooking you is a definite no.
Why is your husband friendly with that girl?
Is he searching for something which he does not get from you?
He likes it when you are not nagging.
He likes it when you are supportive.
He likes it when you are caring.
Do you have these qualities?
If you lag behind, cultivate these habits to make your husband deviate from that girl.Speak to him firmly that you would never tolerate his too friendly interaction with the girl. He has to stop it.You are not acting like a jealous wife. Any wife would react angrily if faced with the same situation. Make sure the fault does not lie with you. Make sure your husband understands you mean business.
MEA says
This seems more like a list of deal breakers to me. This list of items is not annoying – it is utterly disrespectful and in some cases, grounds for divorce.
Annoying husband traits are more so things like:
1. Chewing with his mouth open
2. Not putting items where they belong
3. Messiness
4. Laziness
5. Talking too much
6. Acting childish (ex: expecting his wife to pick up where his mother left off)
7. General inconsiderate behavior (toilet seat up, noise while wife sleeps, and generally doing or not doing little things that make wife’s day more difficult)
8. Putting on too much weight
9. Expecting to be thanked for everything but not reciprocating
10. Giving unsolicited advice