Are you married to a suspicious husband?
Your married life is nightmarish, traumatic and nerve wracking.
When you are married to a suspicious husband you hate your married life.
Are you very beautiful?
An added agony!
Your husband becomes even more suspicious because of his mediocre personality.
Do you know his suspicion is the outcome of his bad looks?
It instigates inferiority complex in him. He feels he is no match to you in his looks.
Are there comparisons between you wherever you go together?
People admire your beauty openly. They talk in low tones that your husband is no match to your looks. Your suspicious husband notices it. He feels very lesser and inferior.
Your suspicious husband makes your relationship stressful and oppressive by having all sorts of doubts about you. His mediocre personality makes him paranoid with suspicion when your good looks attract the attention of the opposite sex.
His interaction is always very questioning and probing. He asks you million questions about your male colleagues\friends\relatives.
When you are late from work you are confronted by his doubting questions.
A clear sign that your husband is very suspicious.
Your married life turns into terrifying experience of being spied upon by your suspicious husband.
‘I cannot dress beautifully when I go out as my husband is very doubting and suspicious’ my friend’s daughter tearfully told me.
‘Why?’ I asked her.
‘I am beautiful and he is not good looking. He always had complex about his looks. People compare our looks wherever we go. This has given him tremendous inferiority complex. He feels he is no match to me. He has now become very suspicious as he feels I am in the lookout for good looking men.’ the poor girl was rightfully depressed about her suspicious husband.
‘When I dress neatly he does not like it. He screams at me that I am seeing someone. If I talk with my male colleagues in the phone he shamelessly eavesdrops. He asks me many probing questions to clarify his suspicions. I hate my married life’ she wept.
Why did her husband behave in such an atrocious manner?
This sort of suspicious behavior is very predominant in men who do not have great personality and is married to a very beautiful girl. All hell breaks out if the girl is social and friendly with her male colleagues. To the suspicious husband it is nothing less than an illicit affair.
He has complexity about his looks!
Your beauty makes your suspicious husband feel very inferior to you. He feels you will leave him for a good looking man.
Are you a beautiful wife married to a suspicious husband?
- When you dress neatly for your workplace, your suspicious husband makes you unhappy by making derogatory comments about your dressing.
- He passes snide comments about your interaction with your male colleagues\friends\relatives.
- He spies on your whereabouts.
- If you are late from work he works himself up into a frenzied suspicion. To him it is your sly outing with your boyfriend which keeps you late.
- His arguments are often very probing and very hurting to your self-respect.
When you are loyal to him, you are infuriated by his suspicious nature, aren’t you?
How should you handle your suspicious husband?
- You need tons of patience.
- You have to accept that your husband has inferiority complex.
- You should make him understand that his appearance is not a hindrance to your love and care for him.
- Never comment on his looks.
- Do not tell him about the comparisons made by your friends\colleagues\relatives.
- Be very natural and friendly with him.
- Do not deviate away from him.
He becomes even more suspicious. Your friendliness and care can make him forget his drawbacks. You should boost up his confidence by appreciating what he is good at. Appreciation can work wonders in making him come out of his shell of inadequacy.
Is your suspicious husband talented in painting\singing\any art?
Boost up his shattered ego by appreciating his talent.
Make him feel good by talking about what he is good at.
You too should not feel that you have married a lesser person who does not deserve you.
It affects your marriage in the worst possible way. Appearance is just a visual treat and has no real contribution to your marital happiness. Make him sure of your love.
- What if your husband does not respond to your understanding care?
- What if your suspicious husband continues to have a very low opinion about his frail personality?
- It needs immense will power on your part to handle your suspicious husband.
- Do not overshadow him by dressing to the kill – he will feel completely washed out before you.
- Do not make fun of his looks.
- Even a small innocuous comment is enough make him feel very lacking.
Lack of good looks makes your suspicious husband that he is not your worthy partner.
This is the topmost reason why he works himself up to hysterical doubts about you.
You are not unlucky if you marry an ugly and colorless personality. But you are unlucky when your suspicious husband makes your married life cheerless and gloomy by his doubting nature.