Love yourself for a short cut route to happiness. Happiness is the most desired aspect in everyone’s life. You want instant happiness and contentment in your life. But you do not have any clue about the ways to achieve it.
‘How can loving myself bring happiness in my life’ I can literally hear your voice.
Shall we look at some examples!
How does a movie become a blockbuster?
It is because the audience love it. If you do not love the movie it is bound to be an utter flop.
How does a sportsman become famous in his specified field of sports?
It is because he loves the game.
How does a businessman become successful in his profession?
It is because he loves his profession.
How does an actor achieve incredible fame?
He should love the way he performs. Otherwise his performance will be lukewarm and halfhearted. The audience would never like his show.
Success, fame, fulfillment and happiness in life depends of how much you love what you are doing. So loving is a great motivational tool in everyone’s life. Unless you love something you do not want it.
Love yourself to find the short cut route to happiness.
It is the wonder tool which motivates you to do better and better in life.
But most of you feel unhappy and miserable about yourself.
You assume that you are destined to suffer. You feel completely defeated and overwhelmed by the pressures and problems you face in your life. It is a harsh fact that life can be real tough when you are bogged down by problems after problems. Defeat and failure is a very lonely world. When you are not successful you have no friends, no support and no hope.
You do not love yourself when you are meek and submissive. You hate it when others dominate you. When you have low self-esteem and self-respect you feel terrified to face life.
Why do you find it impossible to find happiness?
- You feel you are destined to fail
- You take rebuffs and rejections too much to heart.
- You do not have confidence to face life in its full harshness.
- You feel miserable by the problems you face in your profession\ relationship.
- You think everyone in the world are happy except you.
- You never smile or laugh.
Look at the list above!
Can you see how serious you take your life?
You take your present failures as a prelude to your future wretched life. You shrink your life into a world of misery and depression. You do not love yourself. If you do that you cannot have a moment of peace. You cannot have happiness. You cannot succeed.
You want your happiness in a platter. Sadly it never happens
- Happiness or misery is your choice.
- You either fight out your problems in life to find your happiness.
- Or you surrender to your mediocrity and feel miserable.
- The choice is entirely yours.
It is as simple as that.
Sadly most of you never know to LOVE YOURSELF.
You feel the world is too harsh on you to face it confidently. You feel your failures are reflection of your character. You buckle under the pressures this mercenary world throws at you. You do not have the energy to fight back
Why does this happen in your life?
It is because you do not have confidence to face life. You think your failures will continue forever. You are not satisfied with your performance in your profession and relationship. You are unhappy and miserable in life.
You never realize your failures are actually stepping stone to your future success. When failures try to bring you to your knees, you should be confident and determined to fight it out. The precious lessons you learn from your failures are immense and massive.
You know who your real friends are. Your great fighting spirit comes to the foray. You realize you have incredible resilience. It builds in great confidence in you. Confidence makes you assertive.
Assertiveness brings the success that so far eluded you. Success makes you feel worthwhile. Feeling worthwhile makes you love yourself. The next destination in your life is happiness.
Look at yourself in the mirror!
How does your mirror reflect you?
- Are you smiling?
- Is your shoulders straight and erect?
- Do you look well groomed?
- Does your total appearance satisfy you?
this signifies that your whole outlook towards life is assertive and happy. You take life in its stride. Defeats and failures do not faze you. Whenever you are down in life you bounce back with a vengeance. You take life as a challenge. You never let anyone cow you into meek surrender.
When you love yourself your life is one whole world of happiness and satisfaction. Confidence and loving yourself are interlinked. Satisfaction in life and loving yourself are interconnected. Success and loving yourself are interlaced. Finally happiness and loving yourself is interwoven.