What is positive attitude?
It is your optimistic outlook towards life.
It is the assertiveness you show even when you are suffering the worst trauma of your life.
But you often feel impossible to feel positive, don’t you?
You are overwhelmed by the problems in your life that you find it impossible to maintain your inner strength.
Shall we see how you react when you are undergoing issues after issues in your life?
- ‘I was born to suffer.’
- ‘My problems will never go away.
- ‘I don’t feel like trying as I know I will fail.’
- ‘I just want to let go’
Words which clearly depict your unhappiness and misery.
It is true problems never comes in singles. Often it comes as waves to completely demolish your self-confidence. You are unable to cope up with the distressing situations your problems place you in.
But understand that problems do not go away just because you hide from it.
It stays with you to devastate you unless you take efforts to overcome it.
There is only one way to come out of your never-ending problems.
Develop positive attitude.
What are the advantages of being positive?
- You never tire of trying.
- You are sure of your capacity and guts to overcome problems.
- You always see the sunny side of life.
- You visualize your victory vividly even when you are facing defeat. It makes your dream become a reality.
- You do not shut yourself in a world of pessimistic thoughts.
- You forge ahead with optimistic thoughts as your stronghold.
Well, it is easier said than done, isn’t it?
‘How can I have a positive attitude when I am facing persistent defeats in my life?
Your agony is true!
Defeats, failures, rebuffs and rejections takes a heavy toll of your courage. You cower inside fearing your future. When there is fear you always assume the worst for you.
But you cannot afford to be inactive. You have to take actions to overcome your problems.
Positive attitude is the only way out to it.
Are you going to try again and again to be victorious?
Are you going to slump in dejection and surrender to your negative thoughts and be defeated?
It is indeed tragic that you find it easy to be negative and face defeat than to be positive and win.
Positive attitude takes you to the top – 5 easy ways to develop it
1. This too shall pass
Do you feel your problems are there to stay with you?
You are wrong.
Do you fear that your life will never be worthwhile and successful?
Again you are wrong.
Problems are more like passing clouds. It goes away when you keep trying to overcome it.
It is just a fleeting phase in your life.
On the way out your problems teach you many valuable lessons.
Problems chisel you into an assertive and confident person.
Never assume that they will be a permanent feature in your life.
2. Concentrate on how to overcome problems
Never buckle under the pressures you meet in your life.
Make yourself geared up to face it headlong.
You are terrified of lion, aren’t you?
You shiver in fear and want to run away from it to save yourself.
When you run the lion chases you. It likes chasing its victims.
But when you turn around and run towards the lion, it makes a hasty retreat as it is not used to being chased.
Your problems are like the lion. It terrorizes you when you run away from it. But when you go towards it in aggressive courage it beats a hasty retreat.
When you are negative your problems are mammoth.
But when you have positive attitude they shrivel into a size of a mole.
3. Concentrate on your looks
Many of us do not understand the magic of being well-groomed.
A well-groomed look makes you feel assertive and confident.
You like yourself very much.
Your body language also should be assertive and positive.
No pulled down lips.
No frowning forehead.
No stooped shoulders.
No sloppy walk.
Smile and look energetic even when your inner mind is screaming with agony.
4. Practice happiness
Happiness is within you.
It will be yours only when you practice it.
Are you terribly upset by your never-ending problems?
Cry your heart out. You need it to relieve your anguish. But never do it in front of others. Never give others the opportunity to feel happy at your defeat.
Your present defeats and failures is not your final destination.
Your destination is your victory.
You can achieve it only with a happy mindset and positive attitude.
You might not be happy, but the outside world should only see your smile.
A simple practice which gives you incredible energy.
This habit of being happy is infectious. It instantly gets embedded in your mind so that it becomes your second nature to be positive about your life.
5. Keep trying again and again
You might fail again and again.
But that should not deter you from trying again and again.
Unless you try you will not know your strength. Your life will always be a struggle.
However frantic your situation might be, practice positive attitude.
Positive outlook energizes you to give a hard fight to your problems. You amazingly realize that you have a hundred percent chance of victory in life.
‘If you tell yourself you feel fine, you will.” –Jodi Picoult
You have to pull yourself together when your life is in dire straits.
It is your life.
You do not want to waste it away by your negative attitude, do you?
Why do you opt for defeat when you have the option of being positive and winning?