You feel emotionally shattered when you have doubts that your husband has stopped loving you, don’t you?
You ardently love your husband and want his love more than anything else in this world. When you feel your husband has stopped loving you your world comes crashing to your feet.
Why do you doubt the love of your husband?
Your all loving husband suddenly turns cold and indifferent towards you.
You are at your wits end not knowing the reason behind his complete lack of love towards you.
Each agonizing day drags on and on with suspicious thoughts about his love clouding your mind with sorrow.
Has your husband really stopped loving you?
How can you know that he has lost all his love for you?
Well, there are tell-tale signs.
Tell-tale signs that show your husband has stopped loving you
- He interacts indifferently with you.
- He does not look at you when he converses with you. His eyes look blank and bleak as if he is talking with a stranger.
- Your husband callously spends most of his time conversing in his mobile.
- He watches TV all alone.
- He does not prefer to have lunch\dinner with you.
- He often eats out.
- He is frequently late from work. He does not bother to give you reasons for his late coming.
- He moves out to a separate room.
- He avoids any physical contact with you.
- He makes snide comments about your physical appearance. His degrading words makes you feel very low about yourself.
- He stops giving money for family maintenance as he no longer feels family with you.
- Heavy withdrawal from his bank account without informing you is also another warning signal.
- Venomous fights for your innocuous remarks clearly signals your husband has stopped loving you.
- He never attends your phone calls.
- Your husband doesn’t seem to have anything to talk to you.
- He never bothers to inform you about his whereabouts.
- His activities are all secretive.
- He is away from home for days.
- Your husband sometimes physically assaults you.
Have you experienced these emotionally disturbing scenario in your married life also?
Your heart aches for the loving presence of your husband. You feel isolated and alone in the whole world when he does not care for you.
It is the most painful period of your married life when you know your husband has stopped loving you.
Are you breaking your head about the ways to deal with such an emotional upheaval in your relationship?
You should have immense patience to deal with such a traumatic situation in your married life.
When he suddenly becomes indifferent in his interaction with you, you feel depressed that your husband has stopped loving you. His callous behavior makes you unhappy and stressed in your relationship.
You should ask your husband the reasons behind his indifferent behavior. But do not make it a mutual mudslinging argument. It worsens the already tense situation.
Don’t lose hope. Your husband as a man reacts positively when you are truly loving. Your intense love can win him over.
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Diya says
My husband in his mid-forties is in an emotional relationship with his younger female coworker and says he has adopted her as a sister and they give emotional support to each other and she sees him as grand dad, dad, brother etc and has agreed to be daughter to his mom. My mil emotionally and verbally abuses me and my co-sister and we have struggled as spouse expects us to put up with the abuse saying that she is old and will not change. We have 2 teenage boys and are living separately for 1yr now as fights escalated between us and he walked out. All these years, his rules for us was that we don’t get involved with others problems or involve others in our issues. She has married and moved to another job but my spouse is expected to be at her side to comfort her, whenever she is depressed and unmanageable and to calm her down. My husband asked her fiance for permission to be her brother but she said there was no need to ask me as they have bonded and its not physical , hence there is no wrong. she is of the opinion that all needs cant be filled within a marriage and its ok to get needs filled outside marriage by others we bond with. He didn’t ask me as he knew answer is no and he cant break his own rules openly and the only way was to manipulate and corner me to accept her as his adopted sister. He has portrayed me as the unreasonable, jealous and possessive wife to kids , and other family members. I was expected to keep distance from all males in my life. I feel disrespected and treated unfairly. He says he wont give up the relationship for marriage or kids. I am open to reconciling as kids are involved, if he corrects his behavior. But he refuses to talk or meet and blames me for her entry and says he provides for the family and that i should accept the situation. Should i put myself first and continue to protect myself from spouse , his mom and adopted sister or work towards reconciliation for my teens ? How is it possible if there is going to be no change from their side ?
Mathi says
Diya,
First my apology for the delay in answering you. You need not accept the girl as the sister of your husband. Your husband has no business in giving priority to the girl over you. You should put your foot down on this. Be very firm in telling your husband that he should sever all his ties with the girl. There is nothing wrong in it. Your husband is blaming you to escape from the wrong he is doing. You say you have teenage children. You should explain to them your point of view. You must be adamant in never tolerating the unreasonable behavior of your husband. You should definitely put yourself first when your husband is misusing you. Talk to the girl and tell her how her relationship with your husband is ruining your marriage.