Certain thrilling words never fails to excite you in your married life, doesn’t it?
Do you know words shape your relationship?
The words you use either destroys or shapes your marriage. Your spouse understands your love only through your words.
Your spouse construes many meaning behind the words you utter. Misused words can destroy your married life.
But most of you never understand the power of words.
You used many thrilling words during your dating days.
I love you.
I miss you.
You look great.
Magical words, aren’t they?
You never outgrow them. You never tire of hearing them. Your spouse too never outgrows it.
Thrilling words of your relationship – Welds a magic wand
But you change completely after marriage. Of course in the initial glow of your married life you say these words often to your spouse. But gradually these words disappear from your vocabulary.
Why did you utter magical words during your dating days?
You wanted to put your best foot forward and show yourself as a caring and loving person.
Why is it you never utter these words after marriage?
After marriage staleness settles down in your relationship. You no longer feel like pleasing your spouse. You take it for granted that your spouse should understand your love.
It is sad you never realize the importance of words in your relationship. Words have awesome power in your married life. Endearments welds breathtaking influence to transform your marriage to the extraordinary.
Here are examples!
Did you use harsh words in your arguments with your spouse?
Do you take it for granted that he\she spouse will forget it?
You are wrong.
Hostile words build tremendous resentment in your spouse. It makes him\her feel unloved and misused by you.
But when you say I am sorry the impact of the resentment radically disappears.
Do you want your spouse to do something?
If you order and command him\her, he\she definitely does not agree with you.
But when you say please in a pacifying manner your spouse instantly obeys you.
When you say I love you, it instantly lights up the mood of your spouse.
When you say I am sorry for what I said, your spouse immediately forgets the intensity of your fight.
Can you now see the power of words?
But invariably you never use words properly. You utter words that criticize and demean your spouse in the worst possible manner.
Your voice is commanding.
You are emphatic to show your dislike. But you never make any efforts to show your love.
Are you ever thankful to your spouse?
You are not.
You think your spouse is only doing his\her duty. So you feel there is nothing to thank him\her for.
This is the reason why there is no loving interaction between you after a few years of marriage.
Unless you open up your love in words your spouse will never really understand what you feel about him\her.
Utter thrilling words of love and care often.
It welds a magic web around your relationship. It makes both come close to each other.
These thrilling words brings in precious intimacy to your relationship. It makes your spouse belonged to you in love.
It is the simplest trick towards a magically happy married life.