Are you all at seas not knowing the ways to attract your wife?
You worried when your wife does not feel attracted to you.
Who is in the wrong?
- My husband takes me for granted.
- He does not listen to me.
- He is very practical that he does not demonstrate his love.
- He wants me to look attractive but fails to understand that I have the same expectations.
These are the few complaints your wife will definitely have about you.
Do not be too practical to assume that your wife should read between lines to understand your love.
Top 5 easy ways to attract your wife – draws her to you
1. Focus your attention on her
What do you do when you are home?
At the most you are glued to your laptop. You play video games. You watch your favorite sports. When you interact with your wife your eyes never focus on her. You look at the TV. You look at your mobile phone. Everywhere except at your wife.
Do you know your wife fumes inside in helpless anger when you ignore her presence?
Never make this silly mistake.
Focus you total attention on your wife. Your eyes should always look directly at her. Make your wife feel she is so special to you that you want to spend time with her.
It is the utmost wish of your wife. But mostly denied by you.
The easiest way to attract your wife is to notice her. Don’t make her feel you treat her as part of the furniture at home.
Lifeless and emotionless.
2. Do not be too commenting
It is strange you have nothing good to say about your wife. You make fun of her way of dressing. You compare her physical appearance with that of your attractive female colleagues\friends.
The worst possible mistake you make.
Your wife hates it.
You never appreciate her hard work in looking after your family. But you are instant in making negative comments about your wife.
Yet another aspect your wife hates about you.
Appreciate your wife any time, every time and all the time. She adores it. But think twice before making negative comments about her. When you keep on commenting about her, your wife feels the heat.
How can you attract your wife through such insensitive behavior?
3. Be specific when appreciating her looks
Do you ever appreciate the looks of your wife?
But you are more than ready to ogle at other women. You look through your wife even when she takes care to look good before you. Your poor wife needs just a word of appreciation from you.
‘I like the way your hair curls falls on your forehead’.
‘You look cute when you wear blue\red\yellow color dresses.
‘Your eye lashes are long and beautiful’ – such specific appreciation about your wife makes feel dazed with love that you have noticed even the minute details about her.
You are beautiful – general appreciation.
Your hairstyle looks good today – specific appreciation.
You attract your wife when you appreciate her looks.
4. Make her feel special
Are you a very practical man?
Do you make your wife crave for attention?
You are doing it all wrong. You never know the tremendous hurt you inflict on your wife when you take her for granted.
It is very easy to make your wife feel special.
Take care of her when she is sick.
Make her birthdays special for her. Buy her gifts. Take her out.
Give her ‘me time’.
Look after your children.
Share her never-ending household chores willingly.
Have direct eye contact with her – a very simple technique to make your wife feel special.
5. Take care of your appearance
You are the first to make derogatory comments about the appearance of your wife.
Wait a moment.
Look at yourself in the mirror.
You are unshaven. You are pot-bellied. You are grimy and dirty.
Your wife also wants you to be well toned and well dressed. The coolest way to attract your wife is to look smart and dress smart. Do not think you can get away with your flabby appearance.
When you have expectations about your wife, you should know she too has expectations about you. Fulfill her expectations. Attract your wife by being the husband she longs you to be.