Your flirting husband makes you feel highly annoyed when he time and again goes overboard in ogling at girls, doesn’t he?
Why does your husband flirt even after marriage?
Men basically never think it wrong when they look at other women in a flirtatious manner.
I hid a smile when I saw my husband viewing a pretty woman with mild appreciation. When the girl moved away he turned to me with a cheeky smile. I smiled back at him.
‘Well, you seem to be enjoying yourself. Do you feel that girl is prettier than me?’ I teased him.
‘Yes! The girl is very pretty, but l love my wife’ he smiled warmly at me.
Since we had an excellent relationship we were more of friends. I was very confident of his love for me. So this sort of mild flirting did not affect me at all. In fact it gave me chance to make fun of my husband.
I overlooked the flirting of my husband because it was a harmless exposure of his male nature.
Nothing serious, you know.
But what happens when the flirting of your husband borders on cheating?
You are naturally wild with anger.
Top 10 qualities of a flirting husband – Put your foot down
1. Laughing too much
Does your husband laugh unnecessarily while talking with other women?
He tries to impress women by displaying his sense of humor – something which he never does with you.
He utters double meaning jokes with ease.
You glare at him in frustrated anger. You are furious at his audacity.
Too loud and meaningless laughter clearly shows that your flirting husband is trying to show himself off as a very jovial and friendly person.
2. Looking at women with too much concentration
Does the eyes of your husband linger at other women for a long time?
When your husband looks at the body assets of another woman it shows it is not a casual glance but blatant flirting.
He stares at a beautiful woman right in your presence. His eyes follow the woman intensely around.
Your husband is flirting with his eyes – a thing only men could do.
3. Sudden makeover in appearance
Does your husband change his appearance without any valid reason?
When you enquire about it he gives you many lame explanations.
But his voice is feeble and without conviction.
He is busy before the mirror admiring himself.
He dresses a little too nattily.
You intuitively feel your husband’s complete appearance makeover is to impress a girl who has caught his latest fancy.
Your flirting husband is all set to show himself off.
4. His voice is low when he talks in the mobile
Your husband talks in a very low voice in his mobile.
You know from his tone that it is not an innocent call.
He talks for a long time.
He has a furtive and secretive look in his face.
He does not explain whom he was talking to for such a long time.
This makes you feel very suspicious that your husband is flirting.
5. He changes his passwords
Your flirting husband usually shared his social media activities with you.
You knew about his social media friends.
But suddenly there is a complete about turn in his behavior.
You can never log into his social media accounts because your husband has changed his password.
6. Deletes all his texts and logs
You are bewildered when the texts and logs in your husband’s mobile is wiped clean.
‘This is unusual’ you tell yourself.
Your husband has become very secretive.
Top sign that he does not want you to know about his new interest.
7. He lets you fend for yourself
When you go out together your flirting husband leaves you to fend for yourself.
He spends fun time with a woman whom is attracted to.
He thoroughly enjoys himself.
He makes unnecessary furtive and fleeting physical touches.
He makes it seem like an accidental touch – innocent and amicable.
But it is not so.
It is his brazen attempt in making his interest in the woman obvious to her.
8. Vulgar body language
Does your flirting husband stand legs wide apart with his hands in his pant pockets?
Does his lower body thrust forward in a lewd posture?
He feels he is very macho and very virile.
He trying to impress about his manliness.
You want to hit him, don’t you?
9. Your calls go unanswered
Your husband never tells the woman he is interested in that he is married.
So your calls go unanswered.
You break your head the reason behind his not picking up your calls.
10. He never picks up calls when he is with you
Though his mobile rings constantly your husband never picks up the call.
You are there, you know.
His face show his guilt.
He cuts the calls.
When you ask him to attend the calls he says it is from some unknown number.
When you move away from the place he is busy messaging.
When you return he instantly deletes the message.
Mild flirting of your husband can be overlooked if it is fleeting and passing.
But does your husband make his flirting too deep and intense?
He is just a stone step away from cheating.
Put your foot down before it is too late.