Your cheating spouse makes you feel depressed and completely lost, doesn’t he\she?
When you are loyal and faithful towards your spouse it is only natural you expect the same from him\her.
My childhood friend called me to come to her house. I was taken aback to see her disheveled and in a confused state.
She was usually very cheerful. The time we spent together was always fun. But that day I found her in complete contrast to her usually bubbly nature.
‘I think my husband is cheating me’ my friend told me tearfully.
Now I knew the reason why she called me over to her.
‘Why this sudden suspicion about him?’ I asked her worryingly.
‘There are lot of changes in my husband’s behavior. Nowadays he always comes late in the night from office. When I asked him the reason he says his official work is keeping him late. I know it is a lie’, she fumed.
‘He is on the mobile for hours together. He cuts off his call when I am in the room. His voice is very secretive. This makes me even more suspicious’ my friend went on and on regarding her suspicion about her husband.
I think she had valid reasons in doubting her husband.
Your cheating spouse leaves behind a trail of suspicious behavior.
Top 5 signs of a cheating spouse – Leaves a trail of his\her betrayal
1. Unexplained delay in returning home
Your cheating spouse is invariably late from work.
Sometimes it is well into midnight. He\she cooks up some excuse of unforeseen work in the office. But his\her voice is without conviction.
You never know about his\her whereabouts.
He\she is never home.
Your spouse no longer goes out with you. He\she always prefers to go alone.
2. Sudden full stop in communication
Your cheating spouse no longer communicates with you. If at all he\she talks with you it is in monosyllables.
He\she watches TV alone.
When you go to join him\her he\she moves away from the place.
Your spouse avoids eye contact with you.
His\her eyes are shifty and guilt ridden.
3. Glued to the mobile.
Your spouse does not answer your calls.
Your call is always in the waiting as he\she is on another call.
And he\she does not bother to call you back.
While your spouse does not talk to you he\she spends secret hours in the mobile.
His\her voice is not normal but a whisper.
He\she deletes messages from his\her mobile – top sign your spouse is hiding something.
He\she has a new mobile – you never know the number.
4. Two different behavior
Your cheating spouse becomes abusive and indifferent towards you.
He\she makes you feel lost and lonely by being aloof and detached when at home.
But when he\she talks in the mobile he\she is full of laughter.
He\she moves to a secret place to talk.
He\she never explains who is in the line.
5. Your cheating spouse is completely off your family
Your spouse no longer makes you feel a family.
He\she is not committed to the family. You have to fend for yourself.
He\she yells at you and your children without any reason.
He\she moves out of your bedroom to sleep in another room.
He\she refuses sex with you.
He\she makes degrading comments about you with the sole intention of hurting you.
Clear signs that your spouse is deceitful.
Of course you cannot let your cheating spouse off the hook. You should definitely confront him\her. After all loyalty and faithfulness is common to both, isn’t it?