Your cheating spouse makes you feel depressed and completely lost, doesn’t he\she?
When you are loyal and faithful towards your spouse, it is only natural you expect the same from him\her.
This is the reason you literally become wild with anger when your spouse dares to cheat you.
Yes!
Your cheating spouse causes you intense sorrow and grief by his\her cold-hearted infidelity.
I had a frantic call from my childhood friend, asking me to come immediately to her house. I was taken aback to see her disheveled and in a confused state.
She was usually very cheerful. The time we spent together was always fun. But on that day, I found her in complete contrast to her usually bubbly nature.
“I think my husband is cheating me,” my friend told me tearfully.
I could not believe it. I always thought she was happily married.
“Why do you feel suddenly suspicious about him?” I asked her worryingly.
“It was not as sudden as you think. I have been suspecting him for some time now. There are lot of changes in my husband’s behavior. Nowadays he always comes home very late in the night from office. When I asked him the reason, he says his official work is keeping him late. I know it is a lie’, she fumed.
‘He is on the mobile for hours together. He cuts off his call when I am in the room. His voice is very secretive. This makes me even more suspicious’ my friend went on.
“My husband no longer talks with me. It is as though I don’t exist for him. He has moved away to another room. What more proof do you want about his cheating?” my friend chocked with anger.
I think she had valid reasons in doubting her husband.
Your cheating spouse does leave a trail of his\her betrayal.
1. Not wanting to stay home
Your cheating spouse is invariably late from work.
Sometimes it is well into midnight. He\she cooks up some excuse of unforeseen work in the office. But his\her voice is without conviction.
He\she is never home during weekends also. You never know about his\her whereabouts.
Your spouse no longer goes out with you. He\she always prefers to go alone.
2. Complete full stop to communication
Your cheating spouse no longer communicates with you. If at all he\she talks with you, it is in monosyllables.
He\she watches TV alone.
He\she never discusses family issues with you as though it no longer matters to him\her.
He\she makes you feel lost and lonely by being aloof and detached when at home.
Your spouse avoids eye contact with you.
His\her eyes are shifty and guilt ridden.
3. Glued to the mobile.
Your spouse does not answer your calls.
Your call is always in the waiting as he\she is on another call.
And he\she does not bother to call you back.
Though your spouse does not talk to you, he\she spends secret hours in the mobile talking to someone.
He\she never explains who is in the line.
When your spouse is in the mobile, his\her voice is not normal, but secretive.
He\she deletes messages from his\her mobile – top sign your spouse is hiding something.
He\she buys a new mobile and you never know the number.
4. Your spouse turns abusive
Your cheating spouse becomes abusive and indifferent towards you.
He\she makes derisive comments about your physical appearance. He\she makes you feel very unattractive.
He\she makes degrading comments about you before friends\relatives with the deliberate intention of insulting you.
He\she makes you feel you are doing everything wrong.
He\she rains insults on you without any valid reason.
5. Your cheating spouse does not care about you\children
Your spouse no longer makes you feel a family.
He\she is not committed to the family. You have to fend for yourself.
He\she yells at you and your children without any reason.
He\she moves out of your bedroom to sleep in another room.
He\she refuses sex with you.
Conclusion
These are clear signs that your spouse is deceitful.
You are dejected about the insensitive attitude of your cheating spouse, aren’t you?
Don’t let your cheating spouse off the hook. You should definitely confront him\her.
After all loyalty and faithfulness is common to both, isn’t it?
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