You never realize that you might be an annoying wife, do you?
Do you know that the certain qualities you display, makes your husband resentful and frustrated?
You often do not understand your husband from his point of view.
You always think yourself as a perfect wife, don’t you?
Married life becomes complicated when you do not play your role the right way. There is a boundary line to every relationship.
Your relationship with your husband, is no different. When his privacy is intruded upon by you, he feels edgy and highly annoyed.
Though you love your husband, you display it the wrong way.
Do you know your husband feels suffocated and overwhelmed, when you display emotions which is not to his liking?
Are you an annoying wife?
Check whether you have these 10 irritating habits your husband dislikes
1. Giving your husband no privacy
Your husband likes his freedom more than anything else. When you dictate terms and conditions as to what your husband should do, he does not like it.
You often blame your husband, when he wants to spend time with his friends. You feel your husband is behaving irresponsibly, by forgoing family time to be with his friends.
So, you nag your husband endlessly about his responsibilities as a family man.
Your husband does not like your behavior a wee bit.
You never allow your husband freedom to unwind himself. When you do so, your husband feels jailed and imprisoned in his relationship with you.
When you do not understand the male world of your husband, he becomes tight lipped and closed with you.
2. Being too questioning and nagging
- Do you question the whereabouts of your husband in a suspicious manner?
- Do you nag him about his irresponsible behavior?
- Do you also nag his untidiness and question his duty consciousness?
Your husband feels you are an annoying wife.
When you are too questioning with your husband, he finds interacting with you boring and tedious.
When you make your husband seem an idiot by nagging him threadbare, he becomes emotionally distant from you.
3. Wanting to change your husband
You feel your husband does not do anything with perfection.
You want to change the dressing of your husband, according to your liking. A habit he hates.
You keep on advising your husband what he should do and how he should do it.
Your intruding attitude, and all knowing attitude makes your husband furious with anger against you.
Interference is another quality of an annoying wife.
4. Involving a third-party in personal life
When there is a relationship issue with your husband, you ask your parents\friends\relatives to advise him.
Your husband hates it more than anything else.
You often go to your parents with a complaint list about your husband.
Your parents too do not understand that it is a personal issue between you and your husband.
When your parents interfere on your behalf, their unwanted intrusion makes your husband wild with anger.
4. You do not listen
Your husband dislikes your habit of thinking, that only you know what is good for your family.
Your husband hates it when you do not pay heed to his suggestions about family matters, and go about doing what you think is the best option.
By overlooking the suggestions of your husband, you crush and shatter his male ego.
6. Being doubting and suspecting
You have all sorts of doubts about your husband.
You doubt his ability to succeed. You doubt his loyalty towards you. You doubt his love.
You feel your relatives\colleagues\friends are doing better than your husband in their profession.
You question your husband about his inability to earn as good as your relatives or colleagues.
Your husband cringes with helplessness, not knowing how to handle your needless comparison.
7. Always on the lookout for explanations
You want explanation for everything from your husband, whereas he hates giving it.
You want instant an explanation for the anger of your husband. And when the poor man explains, you are not satisfied.
If your husband is late from work, you want a confirmation that it was work that kept him behind, and not some illicit activities with the opposite sex.
If your husband helps his parents financially, you question your husband about the need for it.
When your husband is questioned too much by you, he is confirmed that you are a very selfish and shrewish wife.
8. Denying the liberty of your husband to help his parents
You love your parents, don’t you?
You help them financially if they are in need for it.
But when your husband wants to help his parents, you make it a big issue and bar him from helping them.
Such intrusion into his duties, makes your husband feel that you are too demanding and commanding.
9.Denying him sex
This is common blunder most women make, and the worst one at that.
You make sex your bargaining ground, and make all sorts of demands in the weakest moment of your husband.
You are being an annoying wife.
Denying physical intimacy to your husband, makes damaging inroads into your relationship.
10. Wanting your husband all for yourself
After marriage, you feel you have all rights over your husband. You hate to share him with others.
You become overwhelmingly possessive. You want your husband to be at your beck and call.
You literally cling to your husband 24\7, in the name of love.
You leech your husband off his personal time, by demanding all his time and attention not knowing that he hates it.
Conclusion
“Nothing annoys in this world as a nagging wife” – Bangambiki Habyarimana
Do you possess all these qualities?
These are traits of an annoying wife which your husband dislikes.
You should understand your husband from his male perspective. Realize his inner needs.
A relaxed and comfortable husband makes you feel that you are his queen.
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