Do you want to know the top blessing of a good married life?
Marriage is a mosaic you build with your spouse. Millions of tiny moments that create your love story.” –Jennifer Smith
‘I am blessed’!
When do you say these wonderful words?
When you have something which gives you happiness and fulfillment you feel you are blessed.
Perfect body without impairment.
Top blessings which mean a lot to you!
But there is yet another blessing which everyone dreams of.
Are you wondering what it is?
‘Modern youth do not know how to value their marriage’ said my eighty year old mother.
‘Why do you feel so?’ I asked her.
‘They never understand the blessing of a good married life. They run after money without knowing it is just a means to a good standard of living. Good relationship is one of the topmost blessings you need’ my mother sighed with regret.
I think she had a point there.
You always think that being rich is the top blessing in your married life.
How can money contribute to the happiness in your marriage?
Money just makes you financially independent.
It gives you the power to buy the best things the world has to offer.
You also have an enviable social status.
That is all!
Marriage needs many more blessings than money to transform it from an ordinary relationship to an extraordinary one.
You casually overlook the good characteristics of your marriage and go about your life without thankfulness.
Five top blessing of a good married life – Cherish and treasure it
1. Camaraderie and friendship
It is one of the rarest qualities in today’s modern marriages.
You lead a hectic life style. Naturally you are always tensed and worked up with worries and stress. In fact you lose your smile after marriage.
‘I have become responsible and I cannot be as carefree as I was before marriage’, you argue.
But strangely you are totally different in your work place. You laugh and make fun of your colleagues and have good companionship with them.
I often observe colleagues sharing fun moments between themselves when I am in a bank or other offices.
I wonder whether these people carry the same smile and friendliness back home. Most probably they don’t.
You frown and fret at home. You are edgy and jumpy. You do not want interaction with your spouse. So you dump yourself before TV\computer\laptop.
You don’t want to be disturbed either by your spouse or your children.
You do not talk with your spouse as your fear that your tension will spill forth as angry words if you interact with him\her.
Do you know you can relieve your stress when you have fun time with your family?
Be humorous and funny when at home.
Keep communicating with your spouse.
Friendly relationship with your spouse is the top most blessing of a good marriage.
2. Financial security
Money is a tricky commodity in marriage.
It gives you great financial security.
Do you know financial debacle instigates accusing war between you?
Both point accusing fingers at each other for the miserable financial status of your family.
When you spend money recklessly without thinking about the future of your family, you lose it. Marriage without money is nightmarish and hellish.
When you lose money you lose the love of your spouse also. Bitter arguments and harsh words make your married life miserable and wretched.
Learn the trick of saving money for your financial security and spending money for the enjoyment of the family.
If you only save, your family loses the joy of life.
If you only spend money, your family loses financial security.
Financial freedom is a precious blessing your marriage needs.
3. Good children
Marriage is not you and your spouse alone.
It involves your children.
In fact your children are the anchor of your marriage.
‘God has blessed us with a wonderful daughter’ my husband used to tell me. My daughter was very friendly with us and enjoyed spending time with us.
Though my husband is no more, I can never forget the fulfillment I felt when I saw her playing games with her father like a friend.
Treat your children with friendliness and become their best friend and confidant.
Good children are yet another precious blessing of a good married life.
4. Good health
Good health decides your contentment quotient in marriage.
When health is lost everything is lost in your relationship.
Good health of your family is one of the greatest blessings of a good married life.
Never lose your health in fast foods and fast life style. Health once gone never comes back to normal.
Guide your children about good eating habits. Teach them the importance of good health.
5. Unwavering support of your spouse
Do you get the spontaneous support of your spouse when you direly need it?
When you have to fend for yourself your mind craves for the emotional support of your spouse.
You feel terribly lonely in your relationship, don’t you?
But when your spouse springs to your support instantly you feel secure and safe in your marriage bond.
So, the support of your spouse is yet another valuable blessing of a good married life.
Good marriage depends on several beautiful aspects to make it a fascinating experience. Do not ever feel complacent about what you are blessed with.
Every minute aspect of your relationship is a blessing of a good married life. Treasure and cherish your blessings.