Your disinterested husband makes your married life boring and dull, doesn’t he?
You always yearn for your husband to show interest in you. But when he scarcely notices you, you naturally feel dejected and miserable.
How does your disinterested husband behave at home?
- He talks with you only when it is necessary.
- He often spends his time alone with his laptop\mobile phone.
- He rarely smiles at you.
- He is not humorous.
- Sex is just a physical ritual to him.
Your married life is indeed very tedious when your disinterested husband makes it even more boring by behaving distantly with you.
You feel frustrated and angry at your husband, don’t you?
‘Why he is not interested in me? You often break your head as you are clueless about his indifference.
I can see you visibly rearing your head in anger at this accusation.
Checklist of reasons behind the behavior of your disinterested husband
1. You are very nagging
When you consistently nag your husband he does not like to interact with you. If there is something your husband hates in you it is your nagging.
You nag your husband for almost everything.
- You nag him to be responsible.
- You keep ranting about his shabbiness.
- You crib about his carelessness.
Though your husband might be in the wrong he feels insulted when you nag him.
He literally shuts you out when you harass him with never-ending accusations.
You can easily make him feel interested in you when you are friendly and reasonable with him.
2. You are very pushy
When you literally take over the life of your husband by your aggressiveness he does not know what to do.
He hates your overbearing nature. But he does not have the courage to point it out to you.
How do you act bossy with your spouse?
- You act as though you know everything.
- You do not care to listen to the viewpoint of your husband.
- You literally threaten him to earn as good as your colleagues\friends. It makes your husband think that you are very greedy.
- You keep on advising him as if he was a nitwit.
- You sometimes compel him to change his job as you feel the salary he is earning is peanuts.
Your husband is frustrated at your blatant interference into his personal territory.
Topmost reason for a disinterested husband.
3. You are too beauty conscious
You feel you are very beautiful and want to show it off. You preen before the mirror to polish your beauty. You are very fashion conscious and would not wear dresses which are out of fashion. You spend tons of money on beauty that it sickens your husband.
- He hates the over made up look you always sport.
- He dislikes it when you are very concentrated on your beauty than on him.
- You feel your beauty will make your husband feel deeply attracted to you.
But you are surprised when your husband does not care for it.
He does not care for your beauty when you are not loving.
4. You are very comparing
You compare your husband with your more successful colleagues and friends. Your intention is to motivate him. But your husband hates it.
You often crib about the lifestyle of your friends and complain that he is no good in giving you the lifestyle you yearn for.
This makes your husband feel you are not satisfied with him. As a man your husband wants you to value him.
5. You are very shabby
Your husband hates it when you look grimy and sweaty when at home. He wants you to be presentable.
When you wear ill-fitting clothes his mind instantly compares you with his more well-groomed female colleagues.
He wants you to smell good.
He likes you when your hair is shiny and glossy.
Conclusion about disinterested husband
Like you your husband also has many expectations about you. When his male expectations are denied by you he is totally disinterested in you.
Understand the male needs of your husband. This is the easiest way to make your disinterested husband to be interested in you.