You find it impossible to live through your problematic married life, don’t you?
Most of you feel so.
Why do you find your married life challenging and confusing?
The answer is simple.
You make your married life complicated by having loads of unwanted emotions against your spouse.
Shall we have a look at the tons of negative emotions you store in your mind against your spouse?
- You are indifferent to the feelings of your spouse.
- You never give him\her emotional security.
- You vent your work related stress on your spouse.
- You are not supportive and encouraging.
- You make much ado about his\her minor mistakes.
- You are very insulting and abusive.
- You harbor resentment against your spouse for almost everything.
- You feel you are doing everything right and your spouse is doing everything wrong.
- Your problematic married life lacks basic respect.
How can you experience happiness in your relationship when you wantonly display such negative emotions?
These relationship blunders rule your married life. You never know it makes your marriage an intolerable existence for you. Throw away these overload of negative emotional luggage from your marriage ruthlessly.
You commit these relationship blunders without knowing about its dreadful impact in your marriage.
- You feel hostile towards your spouse as if he\she was your enemy.
- You are selfish about the money you earn.
- You never share household chores and let your spouse slog alone.
- You coolly utter words which hurt him\her spouse deeply.
- You suffocate him\her with your overwhelming possessiveness.
- You are criticizing about everything your spouse does.
Can you see how you are complicating your marriage?
The other day I found my handbag felt very heavy. It was overstuffed. I took everything out. Ugh! There was a literal garbage in my bag. ATM receipts, bills dated a few years back, soiled kerchiefs, chocolate covers and crushed papers.
I glared aghast at the mess! I threw all the unwanted things away. Now my bag was very roomy and spacious.
You can never have a moment of happiness when you store such negative emotions against your spouse.
Easy ways to simplify your problematic married life
Forgo your unwanted and negative emotions against your spouse.
Replace it with worthy relationship building aspects. It will definitely reverse your problematic married life in an authentic way.
Are you eager to know about these worthy relationship building aspects?
- Love your spouse for what he\she is.
- Feel contentment and satisfaction in small things he\she does for you.
- Be supportive to your spouse when he\she is stressed.
- Tolerate his\her minor faults.
- Be friendly so that your spouse feels free to talk about anything with you.
- Appreciate your spouse every time and all the time.
- Be reasonable and practical.
- Forgo verbal and physical abuse.
- Understand your spouse from his\her point of view.
- Forget your fights.
- Never forget your love.
- Sort out your problems with your spouse immediately.
When you have these easy relationship building aspects in your marriage, it does the incredible trick of reversing your problematic married life into a blissful relationship.
Most of you never have these aspects in your marriage, do you?
In actual fact, you never give much importance to these most wanted qualities. Instead you give undue importance to your negative emotions which make your relationship very complicated and complex.
The best thing to do is to simplify your problematic married life.
Are you wondering how?
Understand that your spouse is your better half and not your bitter half. Think together as you have to live together. Never go in opposite directions. Join hands to move together in the same direction.