Are you wondering what daily happiness in marriage means?
Daily cleaning makes your house sparkling and glittering, doesn’t it?
Likewise, concentration on daily happiness in marriage makes your relationship lovable in the true sense of the word.
I can see most of you shaking your head in disagreement.
‘How do you expect me to enjoy daily happiness in marriage when I feel stressed and tensed always?
You are right.
Modern life is indeed very hectic and hurried.
But you need a compatible relationship with your spouse if you want some peace in your life, isn’t it?
So, you must make efforts to make your married life happy and stable.
How do you go about it?
- Compatibility with your spouse.
- Obedient children.
- Financial well-being
- Good standard of living.
- A permanent job.
You are indeed lucky if you have all these blessings.
This is the total picture of a good married life.
One such minute aspect is the daily happiness you enjoy in your marriage.
Your relationship needs your attention right from the time you wake up in the morning to the time you retire to bed.
How can it be possible?
Both work in different places. Both have different work timings. Both have work related tension. Both have different way of living. Both have different views about life.
How then is it possible to enjoy twenty-four hours of happiness with your spouse?
Marriage comes with a package of arguments, fights, and differences.
But when you overlook certain faults of your spouse and become aware of his\her goodness, you can easily enjoy happiness in marriage.
‘We spend a few minutes just talking and smiling at each other before we get up. It gives us such energy to see us through our hectic work schedule.’ a friend of mine told me.
How right she was.
Here are a few tricks to enjoy daily happiness in marriage!
Do you wake up in the morning in a hurry to do your work?
Do you not notice your spouse?
Don’t do that. Make it a habit to smile and talk pleasantly to your spouse. A small hug the first thing in the morning will work wonders to liven up your day.
Do not yell at your children and order them about to get ready to school.
Cuddle your children.
Appreciate them when they tidy their room. Your appreciation is not going to eat away your precious time.
Rather it gives a great emotional and secure feeling to your children.
When you are appreciative, it makes your children more and more obedient and well-behaved . Your spouse also feels relaxed when you do not yell and shout at your children first thing in the morning.
Always interact with your children and spouse.
Friendly communication does wonders to your relationship.
It does not cost you a dime.
Do not make your spouse and children a means to vent your pent-up frustration.
When your spouse looks good, appreciate him\her.
If you overlook the efforts made by your spouse to look presentable, he\she is not going to notice your appearance.
Tease your spouse and do playful acts which keep your love bright and sunny.
Is your spouse tired and lackluster?
Do not fail to notice it.
Give a caring look and ask him\her what the matter was.
If he\she had made a mistake do not immediately start your nagging and make her\him even sadder.
Be understanding enough to console him\her that everyone makes mistakes and there was nothing to be worried about.
You will be amazed by the loving reaction of your spouse.
When you return early from office, take pains to look good and refreshing when your spouse comes.
If you look sweaty and tired, he\she feels irritable and edgy.
If you look good, it evokes a good and positive reaction from your spouse.
It is sad that men expect their wives to be visually attractive always while they look shabby and grubby at home.
Your wife also needs a visual treat. So men folks, be presentable at home.
Make it a habit to have dinner together. Make it a fun time by talking about everything under the sky.
It feels wonderful, you know.
Ask your children what happened that day in school.
When they share their mistakes with you, don’t reprimand them.
If you do so, they will hide things from you.
Do not become preachy. No children like preachy parents.
Kiss them good night and see they are well settled in bed.
Then comes your most romantic time with your spouse. Do not start any arguments which spoils his\her mood. Be playful and mischievous. There are no restrictions to your intimacy.
Have excellent sex which makes you come emotionally close towards each other. Share wonderful moments of love and attraction to wake up to another day of sunny happiness.
Are the above tricks very difficult to practice?
Follow it to enjoy daily happiness in marriage. It is after all your dream, isn’t it?