Comments on: Friendship between son-in-law and mother-in-law – Practical tips https://www.breezystorm.com/friendship-between-son-in-law-and-mother-in-law/ Love forever until death do us part Fri, 19 Mar 2021 08:48:17 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.6.10 By: Mathi https://www.breezystorm.com/friendship-between-son-in-law-and-mother-in-law/#comment-10909 Sun, 22 Mar 2020 20:14:09 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4099#comment-10909 In reply to Dorothy Schwartz.

Hi Dorothy,
Do not worry about your daughter. I know as a mother you want to help your daughter. But you have to understand that now she is married and so has to live her life with her husband, adjusting to the situation.
Don’t worry. No will struggle forever. Your daughter will get over her rough patch in life. Don’t contact your son in law about helping him with money. I think he feels he can manage his family on his own. It shows that he has guts and self esteeem. It is a good sign that he will definitely make it in life. It will take time but he will do it.

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By: Dorothy Schwartz https://www.breezystorm.com/friendship-between-son-in-law-and-mother-in-law/#comment-10900 Fri, 20 Mar 2020 12:30:18 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4099#comment-10900 I sure do appreciate the caring attitude you have toward people, Mathi. I am a mother-in-law that has struggled to find a way to help my son=in-law for at least 50 years. I don’t know what I ever said to him or did to him to make him hate me so much. My daughter, my son-in-law and 6 of their children from the age of 27 down to the age of 15 are living in a ramshackle house with no plumbing. I wrote my son-law-a letter asking him to get a quotation on fixing the plumbing (my daughter is not telling him that she knows about the letter). I told my son-in-law that I would send him the $$’s for a complete plumbing job but he hasn’t answered me and, knowing him, rather than take anything from me he will force himself and his family to live under these circumstances. I don’t know what to do.

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