You want to be a happy person more than anything else in the world, don’t you?
But sadly you find it impossible to be happy.
‘I am bitter about my unhappy past. I am frustrated about my miserable present. I am terrified about my future. How can you expect me to be happy?’ you quote various reasons for your unhappiness.
This is a melancholic mindset which a happy person never has.
Far from it.
He too has problems. But he takes it in his stride and never lets it dominate his life. He has certain qualities which makes him enjoy life more than others.
Are you a happy person? Check whether you have these top 10 habits
1. Positive mindset
You have a positive mindset.
You do not take your present drawbacks too much to heart as you know it is just a passing phase.
You are confident and assertive.
2. A smiling face
You have a smiling face.
You never look drawn and sapped.
You smile when you interact with others.
Your smile with your eyes which instantly connects you with people.
People adore you for your friendliness.
3. You make others happy
You make people smile and laugh with your humor.
You are ready to interact with others. You are never withdrawn and aloof.
You know how to make others listen to you as you have an excellent sense of humor.
4. You look well-groomed.
You always look well-groomed as your happy mindset will never allow you to look shabby and unkempt.
People are drawn to you by your presentable appearance.
Your well-groomed looks are by-products of your confidence and sense of well-being.
5. You are a great listener
You make others happy by listening to them.
You never thrust your thoughts on them.
You lend your ears to the woes of others and give them solace and confidence.
6. You always maintain your daily routine.
However down you might feel you are always prompt in your routine work.
You never let your pressures buckle you into submission.
You go about your work as if nothing happened.
You might be under great pressure, but your smile is intact, your work is proficient and your interaction with others friendly and spontaneous.
7. You are appreciative
Do you know that a depressive person do not see the good things in others?
But as a happy person you appreciate others.
You appreciate the work of your colleagues.
You appreciate the obedience of your children.
You appreciate the care of your spouse.
Appreciation is the topmost quality of a happy person.
8. You are responsible and accountable.
You do not hide your mistakes and blame others for it.
You own up your mistakes as you never want others to feel unhappy because of you.
You accept your mistakes with the same spirit as you do the appreciation.
9. You like the small things of life
You are happy at the tiny things that happen around you.
You like it when your spouse makes you a hot cup of coffee when you are tired.
You are happy when you have some me time in your hectic work schedule.
You are thrilled when you see an old friend of yours.
You are excited by such small things that you are always happy and fulfilled.
10. You lift the spirit of others.
Your spirits are so uplifted that you lift the spirits of others too.
You give others pep talk with makes people feel good about themselves.
Can you see how positive you are because of your happy temperament?
Why opt for a negative attitude which makes you unsuccessful and a drag?
Happiness can be practiced. Pretend to be happy even when you are unhappy till it becomes a second nature with you.