Do you know you might the reason behind your unhappy wife?
Though you don’t do it deliberately, your unthinking behavior often makes your wife feel
unwanted and unloved.
As a man, you are very practical. It is a very understandable male behavior. But, practicality should not mean being deadpan and wooden with your wife.
Yes!
Your wife often feels you are unloving, uncaring and negligent towards her.
There are many ways you are the reason behind your unhappy wife.
1. You never listen
You never listen to your wife. The poor girl wants to pour out all her feelings with you. But, you do not have the patience. You feel she only talks trash with you.
But, you never understand that what seems trash to you is a very sensitive topic with your wife.
When she complains about her tiredness, you feel she is exaggerating it.
When she wants to interact with you about her tiny wishes, you would rather watch your favorite match.
When your wife wants to talk about family matters, you feel she has to deal with it herself and that it has nothing to do with you.
If at all you listen to your wife, you only halfheartedly listen to what she has to say.
Your unhappy wife feels miserable that you do not love her enough to listen to her.
2. You never appreciate
You are so emotionless that you feel your wife needs no appreciation for doing her duties.
Your wife looks good, but you never appreciate.
Your wife works relentlessly for the family, but you never appreciate.
She looks after your children with dedication, but you never appreciate.
This makes your unhappy wife feel used and neglected by you.
3. You body shame your wife
When you see a beautiful girl, you ogle at her right in front of your wife. Then you turn around to make degrading comments about her physical appearance. Your wife is very sensitive about her appearance.
When you make fun of her looks, your wife feels that you find her unattractive.
When you compare her with other beautiful girls, you make your wife feel sad, that she is not good enough for you.
4. You never help your slogging wife
Your wife slogs alone with her household chores from the morning to the night. You do not feel it is your duty to help her.
She goes to work just as you do. She too is tired just as you are. But you never help her.
You coolly laze around, doing nothing. You never think you too have duties towards your family. This makes your wife feel highly irritated by your behavior.
5. You never respect her
You do not respect your wife. You make her feel she is a nitwit. You make degrading comments about her before your relatives\friends. You make fun of her cooking. You make fun of her way of doing things. You think you are being funny,
But your unhappy wife thinks that you are being plain nasty.
6. You want to dominate her
You still have the old school thought that you are the head of the family. You don’t understand that you are no longer so. You want your wife to instantly obey you as if she did not have a mind of her own.
You think it is the duty of your wife to tow your line.
But strangely, you want her money. You want her to work so that she can share your financial commitments. In this aspect, you are very modern in your outlook.
7. You never discuss with her
You never discuss any important decisions you have made. You never discuss money matters with your wife as you feel she knows nothing about it.
You never discuss why you are angry.
You never discuss why you are withdrawn and morose.
When you don’t discuss about your feelings, your unhappy wife feels left out by your reserved behavior.
8. You never interact with love
You say you interact with your wife. But you do not do it the way she likes. You talk about only important family matters with her.
This is not the type of interaction your wife wants from you. She wants you to interact intimately with her. She wants you to behave romantically towards her.
But you do nothing of this to your poor unhappy wife.
9. You never make her laugh
You are very glum and sober at home. It is not as though this is your nature. You want to distance yourself away from your wife so that she does not pester you about family issues.
You never joke with your wife. You do not share fun moments with her.
Your unhappy wife wants to laugh and share fun with you, but your morose nature makes her feel bored to talk with you.
10. You never satisfy her in the bed
You think you have given your wife intense pleasure when you make love to her. But your hurried lovemaking makes your wife sexually dissatisfied.
You never make her feel fulfilled with your lovemaking. You are hurried and hell-bent on satisfying your raging lust. You never understand that your wife needs tiny gestures of love to feel sexually satisfied.
CONCLUSION
Your poor unhappy wife needs nothing from you except your display of love. But you do not have the patience for it. When you ignore the emotional needs of your wife, you make her feel very unhappy and miserable in her relationship with you.
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