The insensitive relationship mistakes husband commits, knowingly or unknowingly makes his wife feel resentful and frustrated towards him.
Are you one such husband who never truly understands what your wife needs from you?
Do you know this is the worst relationship blunder you make as a husband?
As a man, you never understand the womanly world of your wife.
But, you disappoint her by seeing everything from your male point of view.
It is very practical –completely opposite to what your wife feels.
Do you know this makes your wife fuming and seething with suppressed anger that you never really understand her?
Are you smug that you are a good husband just because you earn lots of money?
You are not.
Do you feel you show the love you have for your wife by giving her a good standard of living?
You do not.
These are basic duties you have as a husband. Fulfilling your duties does not make you a good husband.
I can you see you shaking your head in disbelief at my accusations. So far, you had been patting yourself in the back that you were a near perfect husband.
‘I do not want a husband who honours me as a queen, if he does not love me as a woman.’- Elizabeth 1
This quote sums up what a wife really needs from her husband, doesn’t it?
Shall we throw light on the relationship mistakes husband commits against his wife?
No 1 mistakes husband commits – You are all dominating and controlling
Your male ego wants to take control of your wife as if she was a commodity you own.
You take control of her hard-earned money.
You want her to listen to you.
You never discuss money matters with your wife as you feel she knows nothing about it.
You order her about to satisfy your egoistic nature.
In the bargain, you never realize that your poor wife feels stifled and jailed.
No 2 of the relationship mistakes husband commits – You are ever criticizing
This is another quality your wife hates about you.
You make all sorts of negative comments about her.
You are derisive about her way of doing things.
You make fun of her appearance as if you had a perfect physique.
You ridicule her cooking.
You demean her before your friends\relatives\colleagues.
You keep making negative comments about your wife that she feels you are a sadist.
No 3 of the relationship mistakes husband commits – You are sexually selfish
For you sex is just a physical act. You get easily into a romantic mood. When you are in the mood for sex, you force yourself on your wife.
You never consider the mood of your wife.
You also never realize that she has an entirely different attitude towards sex. She never thinks about it the same way as you do.
Your wife needs to feel cared and loved by you before feeling sexually aroused. But you never care about it. You are always in a hurry.
You satisfy your lust while your poor wife feels her body invaded by you.
No 4 of the relationship mistakes husband commits – You have one rule for yourself and another for your wife
You spend tons of money on updating your electronic gadgets. You don’t like your wife questioning it. But, when your wife buys a dress she likes, you go on and on about her reckless spending.
You easily forget doing things. But, when she forgets something, you make her feel as if she was a dimwit.
You commit mistakes and coolly feel your wife should not make any comments about it.
But when she commits even a minute mistake, you yell at her about her irresponsibility.
This makes your wife feel you are very selfish and self-centered.
No 5 of the relationship mistakes husband commits – You never listen
You feel your wife cribs about unnecessary things all the time. So, you close your ears to her complaints. You nod your head without really listening to her. You never look at her while talking with her.
You are wooden and deadpan when interacting with your wife. You never display your love towards her. This makes your wife feel you never really love her.
Can you now see the insensitive mistakes you have hitherto been making?
Never ever, make these relationship blunders. It can literally destroy your marriage.
How can you avoid committing these unwanted mistakes against your wife?
Empathize with your wife – She needs it.
Display your love openly and frankly– Your wife yearns for it.
Understand her womanly needs.
Simple tricks to make your wife feel loved and cared by you.