Do you want to know the top 5 ways to make your wife feel loved?
Most of you never know that your wife never outgrows the need to be loved by you.
Though you love your wife ardently, you do not make her feel loved and cared.
Do you know she is often in the dark whether you truly love her at all?
As a man you are very practical and rational, aren’t you?
But your wife as a woman is basically very emotional. She want you to demonstrate your love openly. In fact she yearns for it. But sadly you lock your love within yourself.
‘My wife should understand that I love her. She cannot expect me to keep demonstrating my love day in and day out. It would look artificial and stilted’ is you male viewpoint.
‘He overlooks my contribution towards the family as if it was my compulsive duty. At least he can show me that he appreciates it. He never does that. He is always glued to the TV or laptop. He never utters words of love or care to me. I feel so used in my married life’ a common complaint almost all wives have!
Why are you so averse to show your love for your wife?
Why do you live through your relationship life routinely and robotically while your poor wife agonizingly thinks you do not love her?
Do you know this makes your wife feel lost that you do not really care for her?
Value her contribution for the family and make her feel loved.
Just a few tricks can work magic in your relationship!
Are you wondering what you should do to make your wife feel loved?
Top 5 ways to make your wife feel loved!
1. Appreciate her for all that she does for the family.
Your wife works hard and relentlessly for the welfare of your family. Without her contribution you will be at loss to maintain your family. But you take her for granted. You feel it is her duty to look after the family and coolly enjoy the comfort she gives you.
Though she does her duty without your prompting, her inner mind craves for small words of appreciation from you.
It will make her feel worthy, wont it?
But you ignore her contribution with callous disregard for her inner cravings. The poor girl crumbles inside in disappointment.
‘You are my shock absorber’ my husband used to tell me. It was the best compliment I received from him as it made me realize that he appreciated me. If he had kept his feelings about me within himself, I would have never known that he depended on me for his emotional security.
Show your wife how much you treasure her love, care and dedication. It makes her feel belonged to you.
Do you know your love means the world to her?
Do not overlook this intricate part of your relationship and make her feel used.
2. Protect her from others hurting her.
Does your family deliberately demean her?
Do they pass snide remarks about her?
Do you join the foray and make her feel hurt?
This is the worst possible hurt you can inflict on her. Your wife feels insulted, uncared and unloved by you.
When someone insults her, the insult and shame is for you too. You should immediately step in to support her. In fact your love for her should be so strong that your family feels apprehensive to say words which might hurt her.
This is yet another crucial emotional craving she always has. Fulfill it to make her totally infatuated by you.
3.Give her rest from tedious household chores.
Do you know that your wife is overworked?
Do not ignore it and make her slog. When you laze around while she slaves it out, she feels mentally and physically tired. While she is in the kitchen, you can take care of the children.
It gives her some reprieve, doesn’t it?
Don’t make her edgy and jumpy by being morose and withdrawn while sharing her household chores. She doesn’t like it.
You should share her household chores voluntarily. Make it fun by doing it eagerly and willingly. She loves you for it.
4. Be chivalrous and gallant.
Do you think chivalry is outmoded and out of fashion?
It will never fail to impress your wife when you are well mannered with her. When you do not abuse her physically and verbally she feels loved by you.
Are you walking in a crowd?
Your protective arms around her in the crowd makes her look lovingly at you.
She glows with love when you open the car door for her.
Salute her when she looks good.
She adores you when you maintain direct eye contact with her.
She does not like it when you talk to her with one eye focused on the TV or newspaper.
5. Display your love openly and instantly.
Your wife literally craves for your open display of love.
A most lacking aspect in your interaction with her.
Hug her often- She adores it!
Cuddle her to you while watching TV- she literally glows with love.
Pat her cheeks with love- it gives her intense pleasure.
Small things your wife needs to feel loved by you!
- She adores you when you smile at her often.
- She likes you when you buy things for her.
- She thinks you are the best husband when you remember her birthdays and wedding anniversary and make it a special day for her.
- She becomes crazy about you when you appreciate her looks.
- She thinks you are great when you spend quality time with her.
- She craves for your direct eye contact.
Make your wife feel loved! This is the least you can do for her incessant contribution towards the family. Never make her play the love game- he loves me- he loves me not! It is not a joke, but pure agony for her.