There are different types of husbands – from the best to the worst.
“My husband is difficult.”
“My husband is indifferent.”
“My husband never cares about me.”
“My husband acts as though he is the lord of the family.”
These are the varied comments most women have about their husbands.
You too must have a definite idea about what type your husband is.
Why are most women disappointed about their husbands?
It is because of the idealistic expectation they have when they marry.
You too have dreamy expectations about your husband. Your expectations are invariably from your womanly point of view.
And a woman’s point of view is always emotional!
Your emotional expectations are dashed to the ground by your too practical husband.
And this makes you form lot of negative thoughts about your husband.
- My husband is uncaring.
- He does not demonstrate his love.
- My husband is not responsible.
- He is too carefree.
- My husband is bone lazy and does not share my household chores.
- He does not listen to me.
- My husband makes demeaning comments about me.
These are your most common complaints about your husband.
But he is not as bad as you think him to be. Your husband is not indifferent as you think. As a man, he is just being practical and pragmatic.
Though you might think that your husband is not up to your mark, he does make a very important contribution in your married life.
He is the stabilizing factor of your relationship.
Yes!
As a woman you are always keyed up with worries about your family. You become emotional very easily. Your attitude makes the atmosphere at home charged with tension and stress. But your husband makes the situation comfortable by being humorous and entertaining.
Here are interestingly different types of husbands!
Does your husband fit in any of this categories?
1. The emotionally aloof husband
Living with an emotionally aloof husband can be taxing and boring.
- Your emotionally aloof husband does not demonstrate his love.
- He does not share your problems.
- Your husband does not support you when you direly need it.
- He does not listen to you as he is not bothered about your feelings.
- Your husband always feels that you are making a big issue about everything.
- When your parents visit you,your husband remains aloof. You feel insulted at his total disrespect of your parents.
- When there is a financial problem in the family, your husband coolly keeps himself out of it and lets you handle it all alone.
- Your husband does not share your household chores. While you are slogging, he loiters around the house without a care about you.
A very difficult and emotionally draining amongst the types of husbands!
2. The ever flirting and cheating husband
Your flirting husband thinks he is a Romeo. He makes you feel completely put off by his flirting attitude.
- Your flirting husband’s eyes does not observe you.
- His eyes are focused on the beauties around him even in your presence.
- Your husband laces his conversation with suggestive innuendoes when he talks with his female colleagues.
- His sense of humor is not for you, but for others.
- At home your flirting husband is very serious and morose. But with other women he becomes the modern Romeo.
- Your usually glum husband has a field day with his female friends\ colleagues- laughing and joking as if he was a hero. His postures, his language show him as a perpetual flirt.
- Your flirting husband makes you anguished by having one affair after another.
- He makes you wild with anger at his infidelity.
He is a Casanova amongst the types of husbands!
3. THE MALE CHAUVINIST HUSBAND
Your husband belongs to the old school where the man is always the master of the family. So, he does not give you any freedom.
- Your dominating husband thinks that it is your duty to look after him and his family.
- He always wants you to listen to him.
- Your husband wants instant obedience from you.
- He places himself in a pedestal and behaves as though he is the king of the family.
- Your husband makes arbitrary financial decisions.
- You are always in the dark about his investments.
- He is very high handed in his interaction with you.
You feel terrified to voice your thoughts to your dominating husband. You have to subdue your emotions and feelings so that you can tow his line.
The most self-centered and egoistic amongst the different types of husbands.
4. The perfect gentleman husband
Your husband is patience personified. He is very caring towards you. He lets you be yourself and your married life is placid and calm.
- You can watch TV as and when you like.
- Your husband patiently waits for his turn for the remote.
- He does not get angry, nor does he get flustered.
- Your husband does not shout back when you lose your temperament.
- Your home is always serene and calm because of your mentally composed husband.
Are you satisfied in living with such a calm and quiet husband?
Do I hear a loud ‘no’ from you?
Your married life lacks excitement. There is no fun element in your life as everything fits into its slot.
A dull and boring one amongst the different types of husbands, isn’t he?
What then do you really seek in your husband?
I think you have to go to the fifth type of husband to know the answer.
5. The passionate and friendly husband
Your passionate husband shows his emotions like an open book.
- Your husband is temperamental when he is angry, but he more than makes it up by pacifying and cajoling you.
- He does not feel egoistic to ask forgiveness.
- Your passionate husband takes you out, buys things you want and is very indulgent.
- His sincere apology makes you forget his anger.
- Your husband makes you feel excited by his romantic gestures.
- He always appreciates your looks and talent.
- He whistles in loving wonderment when he sees you looking pretty.
- Your husband trusts you and shows it openly.
- He shares his inner feelings with you.
- Your husband finds comfort in your company.
- He shows that he loves you by demonstrating it openly.
- Your husband hugs you when he is happy. He puts his hands around your shoulders when you are worried. He likes to spend his free time with you.
- He is always protective towards you.
- Your husband behaves chivalrously with you.
- You can talk about everything under the sky with your husband without any reservations.
- He behaves like a best friend towards you. There is lot of laughter at your home as he makes you laugh with his humor.
- He is worried when you are worried, happy when you are happy and pacifying when you are emotional.
In fact he is a friend, a passionate lover, a caring husband and your best well-wisher.
A dream husband! A rarity though!
I am sure you crave and yearn for such a wonderful soulmate among the different types of husbands. There can be no dull moment in your marriage when your husband is passionate.
Conclusion
“Being a husband is a whole time job. That is why so many husbands fail. They cannot give their entire attention to it.” Arnold Bennett
Marriage is always a gamble and you do not know whether you have an ace or a joker in your hand. Whatever type your husband might be, you must make the best out of his good characteristics.
No husband is perfect. Neither is yours. So, focus your attention on the good aspects of your seemingly emotionless husband. This is the only way to enjoy your relationship.
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