Do you know that in this modern age, wives cheat as good as their husbands?
Most of you believe that it is only a man, who cheats in marriage, don’t you?
No!
You are wrong.
Recent researches have showed that many wives cheat on their husbands. The percentage of cheating by a woman might be a little lower than that of a man.
But she is not far behind. It is a harsh fact that nowadays it is common for women to have extra marital flings.
Are you a man who feels emotionally shattered when your wife cheats on you?
You just cannot believe that your wife could belie your trust and indulge in an extra marital affair, isn’t it?
Have you ever thought back why your wife cheats you and has an affair with someone else?
Let us see the top 5 real reasons why wives cheat!
1. When you do not display your love
Your wife as a woman is very sensitive and emotional.
She has many womanly needs.
- Your wife needs your emotional support to feel loved by you.
- She wants appreciation from you.
- She wants you to demonstrate your love frankly and openly.
- Your wife wants you to listen to her.
- She wants to feel cared by you.
But sadly, your pragmatic nature never really understands the emotional yearnings of your wife.
- Your wife never really feels cared by you.
- You do not listen to your wife when she shares her problems with you.
- You do not appreciate her contribution towards the family.
- You spend long hours before the television\laptop\video games than with your wife.
Do you know your indifferent attitude makes your wife feel lonely and all alone?
Your wife yearns for caring words of concern and understanding from you. When it is not forthcoming from you, she falls prey to a man who is able to strike an emotional chord with her.
It might be her colleague\relative\friend.
The man your wife falls for listens to her.
He appreciates her.
The other man makes your wife feel attractive.
He easily understands her emotional needs.
These qualities was something your wife sought from you, but could not get it. When the other man makes her feel valued, she is drawn towards him.
Though initially your wife tries to resist the person, she finally succumbs to his tantalizing qualities.
Though there is no justification for your wife’s disloyalty, it is her love deprived life that makes her plunge into a fickle relationship, forgetting you and your children.
Can you see how emotional dissatisfaction is one of the top reasons why wives cheat?
2. When you do not respect her
Do you know your wife wants you to respect her?
By respect your wife does not mean you have to yes sir her.
- Your wife wants you to respect her individuality.
- She wants you to respect her family.
- She hates it when you degrade her.
But often you degrade and demean your wife before others, don’t you?
When you consistently insult your wife, she fumes in helpless anger against you. When you persistently shame her, she turns hostile towards you. When you repeatedly make her feel a lesser person, her mind revolts against you.
In today’s modern working atmosphere, your wife mingles freely with her male colleagues. When there is a man who shows respect for her, your wife’s loyalty towards you deserts her.
She never thinks twice before getting into a meaningless relationship just to get back on you.
YES!
Disrespect is also one of the real reasons why wives cheat.
3. You do not understand her sexual needs
Your male arrogance thinks that only you have the rights for sexual enjoyment. So, you coolly ignore the sexual needs of your wife.
When you want sex, you hurriedly fulfill your cravings without even caring whether your wife is physically satisfied.
And there are times when your hectic work schedule drains your energy level. You come home dead tired and all you want is rest and sleep.
You never care about your wife eagerly awaiting to have physical intimacy with you. When you turn over to sleep, you never see your wife tossing about, losing her sleep in deprived sexual hunger.
A physically unsatisfied wife is like a volcano ready to erupt. When the other man slyly understands her physical needs, your wife easily falls prey to the pleasure he gives her.
4. When indifference creeps into your marriage
When your love loses its sheen, indifference enters your relationship.
You go one way and your wife goes the other way.
Both no longer feel like a family.
How can your marriage survive when all love is lost between you?
You do not care for your wife and she does not care for you.
You do not interact with each other and all communication is lost between you.
Your marriage is like a dilapidated house, all wreckage. There is no warmth, no care, no trust, and no relationship between you.
So, both do not think twice before breaking all barriers of trust.
5. Cheating has become very common
In modern marriages, traditional qualities about relationship is taken lightly. You feel you can do anything and get away with it.
If you do not like home meals you go to a hotel to get the food you like, don’t you?
Your cheating wife also feels so. “I did not get sexual pleasure from my husband. So, I satisfied my physical cravings with another man” such has become the modern mentality of this generation.
Yet another shocking reason why wives cheat!
Conclusion
‘If you leave someone for another person, don’t be surprised if that person leaves you for someone else- Unknown
Can you see the many reasons why wives cheat?
Your marriage can survive only when there is trust and faithfulness in your relationship. When you treat your wife casually, your wife treats relationship with you casually.
You cannot assume that your wife will be loyal to you even if you treat her with male contempt.
You can no longer take the loyalty of your wife for granted.
Such has become the modern trend!
Make your wife feel loved and cherished. Never be the culprit behind her cheating. Whether you cheat or your wife cheats, it is a death knell to your relationship.
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