1.Arbitrary financial decisions<\/strong><\/p>\n

Does your husband discuss with you the financial decisions he has taken?<\/p>\n

Does he listen to your suggestions?<\/p>\n

Do you mutually decide about the family’s financial allotment?<\/p>\n

Is your answer yes<\/strong> to these questions?<\/p>\n

This is a top sign that your husband gives you equal rights in family matters. He values your opinion. He indeed gives you independence.<\/p>\n

Lucky that you are not married to a controlling and dominating husband, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

When you earn as good as your husband, you should have a definite say in the way your money is spent.<\/p>\n

Your husband cannot make decisions for you.<\/p>\n

If he does so, it creates lots of misunderstanding between you. If your husband is an expert in dealing with money he can guide you in a friendly manner how your hard earned money should be spent<\/p>\n

Does your husband make you ask his permission before spending money on something you crave for?<\/p>\n

Do you have to hide your purchase for the fear of his tongue lashing?<\/p>\n

Does your husband control your hard earned money?<\/p>\n

Do you feel deprived of personal money?<\/p>\n

This is a clear sign that your husband is dominating and controlling financially.<\/p>\n

2. Degrading comments<\/strong><\/p>\n

Does your husband make degrading comments about your appearance?<\/p>\n

Does he command you to do certain things at a specified time?<\/p>\n

Do you have to hurry about obeying his orders when he is at home?<\/p>\n

Do you feel stifled and shackled by his commanding nature?<\/p>\n

Your married life feels imprisoned, doesn’t it?<\/p>\n

Your husband has the right to tease you, but he cannot degrade you.<\/p>\n

Can he take it if you pass negative comments on his appearance?<\/p>\n

Can you make decisions about what he should do with his life?<\/p>\n

I am sure your husband will revolt. He should understand that you are an individual and so has every right to do certain things your way. He has no business to interfere into it.<\/p>\n

3.Demanding instant obedience<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you have to act according to the orders of your husband?<\/p>\n

Do you fearfully obey his orders to the dot?<\/p>\n

This is not the way to lead your married life. Such forced submissiveness will make you feel the intense pressure of being a subordinate to him.<\/p>\n

You feel suppressed and oppressed in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Why should you implicitly obey your husband?<\/p>\n

He is not your boss, is he?<\/p>\n