Do you find the above scenario happening in your married life also?<\/p>\n

I am sure you do! \u00a0It is because many couples do not know the beauty of being \u00a0flexible and adjustable in married life.<\/p>\n

What is the nature of flexibility and adjustability?<\/p>\n

It is pliable! It has elasticity! It is unbreakable!<\/p>\n

So be flexible and adjustable in married life. These qualities brings you emotionally close to each other.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u2018There are two types of minds – the mathematical, and what might be called the intuitive. The former arrives at its views slowly, but they are firm and rigid; the latter is endowed with greater flexibility and applies itself simultaneously to the dive.\u2019 Blaise Pascal<\/strong><\/p>\n

Have you observed water?<\/p>\n

It has no shape or form! It fits easily into whatever container you put it into.<\/p>\n

Your relationship should also have the quality of water.<\/p>\n

Very flexible and adjustable.<\/p>\n

Have you also watched the flow of water in a river?<\/p>\n

The water turns towards the curve, straightens when the course is straight, bubbles over the rock and flows according to the course of the river. A delight to watch!<\/p>\n

Your relationship with your spouse should also be like water in the river!<\/p>\n

Very pliable and easy flowing!<\/p>\n

Can iron have the flexibility of water?<\/p>\n

Can it flow fluidly?<\/p>\n

Can it fit into a container?<\/p>\n

It cannot!<\/p>\n

Why is it so?<\/p>\n

The rigidity of iron makes it impossible to be pliable and flexible.<\/p>\n

Most modern marriage relationships are as rigid and hard as iron. Not worth any happiness.<\/p>\n

I still remember the relationship between my grandfather and grandmother. My grandmother enjoyed so much freedom as my grandfather was very flexible in his attitude towards her. It makes me smile when I think of the liberty she had in those days of male domination.<\/p>\n

\u2018You have to have the flexibility of grass in marriage relationship\u2019 my eighty year old mother told me.<\/p>\n

I looked bewildered at her.<\/p>\n

\u2018When there is a hurricane, the big trees are uprooted by the velocity of the wind. But the grass moves according to direction of the wind and survives,\u2019 she stressed.<\/p>\n

\u2018Do you know why?\u2019 she continued<\/p>\n

\u2018It is because of its flexibility. The big trees are too rigid to withstand the fierceness of the wind and are easily felled\u2019 she further elaborated.<\/p>\n

\u2018Modern couples know how to earn lots of money.\u00a0 They maintain a fantastic standard of living. But they know nothing about the importance of being flexible and adjustable in marriage. It is sad to see couples being rigid in their relationship\u2019 she concluded.<\/p>\n

Well, my mother had a very relevant point there.<\/p>\n

Top ways to be flexible and adjustable in married life<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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• When your spouse is temperamental, you should adjust!<\/li>\n
• When you are in your angry elements, it is his\\her turn to adjust!<\/li>\n
• You want to go for a movie, but your spouse wants to go shopping. Your flexible nature make you relent to his\\her wish!<\/li>\n
• You want to buy something you had always craved for. Your spouse indulges!<\/li>\n
• He\\she wants a day out with his\\her friends. You allow!<\/li>\n
• You are tired and your spouse looks after the children.<\/li>\n
• You are off mood and your spouse understandingly gives you the much needed privacy.<\/li>\n
• You want to watch your favorite TV show and your spouse willingly hands you the remote.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  Imagine the happiness you enjoy with your spouse when both indulge each other!<\/p>\n

  Your relationship has the qualities of water. Both fit into each other\u2019s mood. The topmost quality of a happy couple!<\/p>\n

  But are you unyielding attitude towards your spouse?<\/p>\n

  Your married life is like a rope pulled too tautly.<\/p>\n

  A too tightly pulled rope snaps, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

  Your relationship also breaks and snaps when there is too much strictness and restrictions.<\/p>\n

  When your emotions are trampled ruthlessly by your spouse all that is left in your marriage is frustration and disappointment.<\/p>\n

  Your relationship with your spouse should be easy and not taut.<\/p>\n

  Give your relationship a breather which comes \u00a0only when you are flexible and adjustable in marriage.<\/p>\n

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