Is it normal to argue with your spouse?<\/p>\n

Will your marriage relationship be affected by your arguments?<\/p>\n

You can compare arguments in your marriage to the way you use spices in your cooking!<\/p>\n

Are you wondering how?<\/p>\n

A little tinge of spices makes your dish taste heavenly.<\/p>\n

But just add too much of it.<\/p>\n

You cannot eat even a mouthful.<\/p>\n

This is the nature of arguments in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Sadly, you make your marriage life too hot and scalding by arguing with your spouse for innocuous reasons.<\/p>\n

Arguments in marriage-Top 5 interesting reasons!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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• Mild and innocuous arguments -Your arguments is all about minor issues which does not have any negative impact in your relationship.<\/li>\n
• Serious arguments-This sort of arguments is always about some major family issues about which both disagree.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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  • Abusive arguments- Vulgar expletives and physical assault becomes common in such arguments.<\/li>\n
  • Reasonable arguments- These constructive arguments are very essential for your marriage to work.<\/li>\n
  • Arguments induced by others- Your parents\\friends\\relatives instigate you with wrong advice which starts unwanted arguments with your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Let us elaborate<\/p>\n

    1. Mild arguments<\/strong><\/p>\n

    These sort of arguments are always momentary and on- the -spot -clash- of- thoughts.<\/p>\n

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    • Your spouse forgets an important bill to be paid and you flash out in anger.<\/li>\n
    • You are tired and you spurt out in anger to unwind your fatigue.<\/li>\n
    • You argue which brand to buy while you are shopping.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Arguments like these are very normal between couples.<\/p>\n

      It is harmless and innocuous.<\/p>\n

      You never have doubts that your marriage is faltering because of such arguments. It is just a fleeting show of emotions which does not come from the depth of your heart.<\/p>\n

      It is very superficial and not serious. When two people from diversified family background live together it is very human to display such emotions, now and then.<\/p>\n

      2. Serious arguments.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Why do you burst out in serious display of anger with your spouse?<\/p>\n

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      • You are angry when your feelings are regularly ignored by your spouse .<\/li>\n
      • You are tensed when you are always treated second hand and not given your rightful place in family decisions.<\/li>\n
      • You keep adjusting until one fine day you feel that you cannot take it anymore.<\/li>\n
      • Your spouse makes important family decisions without consulting you.<\/li>\n
      • You feel left out in your own family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        When you are treated shabbily consistently you cannot take it any further and so spurt out in angry outburst of bitter words.<\/p>\n

        Such arguments actually showcase the fact that something is seriously wrong with your relationship.<\/p>\n

        Unless you take immediate repairing steps, it leads to wide rifts between you.<\/p>\n

        3. Abusive arguments<\/strong><\/p>\n

        Abusive arguments with your spouse show that your marriage is heading towards failure.<\/p>\n

        What are the causes for abusive arguments with your spouse?<\/p>\n

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        • Your love for each other has died.<\/li>\n
        • You no longer care for your spouse.<\/li>\n
        • You are not bothered about his\\her feelings or emotions.<\/li>\n
        • You have obsessive habits like drugs and alcoholism.<\/li>\n
        • You have inferiority complex.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          When all the goodness of your relationship has withered away you do not care for your spouse.<\/p>\n

          Each and every day of your marriage is agonizing.<\/p>\n

          You feel overwhelmingly jailed in your own house.<\/p>\n

          \u201cIs there a way out of my miserable marriage?\u2019, your mind screams in agony.<\/p>\n

          You want to inflict your frustrated anger and hatred on your spouse as you find it suffocating to co-exist in the same house with him\\her.<\/p>\n

          Your arguments are always degrading and demeaning.<\/p>\n

          4. Reasonable arguments.<\/strong><\/p>\n

          Reasonable arguments in marriage are very essential to point out the mistakes your spouse commits.<\/p>\n

          You just cannot overlook the blunders your spouse unknowingly makes, can you?<\/p>\n

          You argue with your spouse because you care for him\\her. You argue because you do not want your spouse to get involved in something which might hurt him\\her.<\/p>\n

          When you see your spouse being a spend thrift you reasonably argue to point out his\\her mishandling of money.<\/p>\n

          When your spouse does not care for his\\her health you have to advise him\\her, mustn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

          You are very reasonable in arguing with him\\her to make him\\her understand the repercussions of uncared health.<\/p>\n

          Very essential arguments indeed.<\/p>\n

          5. Induced arguments.<\/strong><\/p>\n

          Are you wondering what these induced arguments are?<\/p>\n

          You do not start these arguments. It comes in the form of outsiders who intrude into your personal life.<\/p>\n

          Who are the ones who induce arguments between you?<\/p>\n

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          • Your parents.<\/li>\n
          • Your friends.<\/li>\n
          • Your in-laws<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

            They poke their nose into your life needlessly and the result is arguments between you and your spouse.<\/p>\n

            This is the reason you should draw a line around your private life so that no can barge into it.<\/p>\n

            When there is unwarranted intrusion into your family affairs by your in-laws you feel angry and irritated.<\/p>\n

            You bitterly argue with your spouse about it.<\/p>\n

            He\\she too retorts bitingly back in defense of his\\her family.<\/p>\n

            Very unwanted arguments!<\/p>\n

            Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n

            \u2018You can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars that each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words.\u2019 \u2013Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong><\/p>\n

            You have every right to put forth your thoughts to your spouse. You also have every right to show your dissent with your spouse in things you do not like.<\/p>\n

            But arguments should be constructive and beneficial to your relationship. Argue to make your marriage work. Never argue to make your married life bitter and resentful.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

            Do you know that arguments in marriage is common, even with the most compatible couples? Most of your arguments are situational and circumstantial. It is a common marriage scenario that you cannot avoid. Arguments between you and your spouse differ according to the situation you are in. You just cannot agree to whatever your spouse […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[5,23,128,155,295],"yoast_head":"\n