Most couples lose interest in each other after the initial glow of their marriage wears off.<\/p>\n

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The presence of your spouse kindled immense interest in you in the beginning days of your marriage.<\/p>\n

Everything about your spouse excites you, as he\\she is new to you. The freshness and newness you feel about your spouse makes your relationship very interesting. You just cannot have enough of each other.<\/p>\n

But as years go by, you gradually lose interest in your spouse.<\/p>\n

It happens in almost all marriages.<\/p>\n

Why?<\/p>\n

The answer is simple.<\/p>\n

Have you heard of the proverb “familiarity breeds contempt?”<\/p>\n

You see your spouse day in and day out. You do the same things together, again and again.   Now, everything about your relationship becomes very predictable and stale.<\/p>\n

The routine drudgery of your married life makes you, as couples lose interest in each other.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

The  top reason why couples lose interest in each other is that they do nothing to ingnite passion into their relationship.<\/p>\n

You too might be facing an identical situation in your married life.<\/p>\n

If so, you must be finding your married life boring and dull.<\/p>\n

Unless you are interested in your spouse, you cannot make your marriage a success.<\/p>\n

Your interest in each other is the magnetic power which keeps your relationship alive and kicking.<\/p>\n

Interest in each other is that important for your marriage.<\/p>\n

You do not feel interested in strangers, do you?<\/p>\n

It is because they mean nothing to you.<\/p>\n

You are interested in your spouse because you love him\\her. You are interested because you feel your spouse belongs to you. This interest should travel along with you throughout your marriage.<\/p>\n

But often this does not happen. Like you, most couples lose interest in each other.<\/p>\n

Let us first analyze the <\/strong>the status of your married life in the initial years of your togetherness.<\/a><\/p>\n

In the initial years of your marriage, your interest in each other is at its peak.<\/p>\n

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• You do everything to attract your spouse towards you.<\/li>\n
• You behave in a way that makes your spouse feel that you are a perfect husband\\wife.<\/li>\n
• You are so fascinated by your spouse that everything about him\\her excites you.<\/li>\n
• You are always presentable before your spouse as you want to attract him\\her.<\/li>\n
• You are very appreciative and encouraging.<\/li>\n
• You are supportive and caring.<\/li>\n
• You admired his\\her looks before marriage. <\/li>\n
• You easily overlooked the faults of your spouse before marriage.<\/li>\n
• You demonstrated your love openly and explicitly.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  But everything changes after a few years of your married life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

  For the worse, of course. <\/p>\n

  You lose interest in your spouse.<\/p>\n

  Do you know what happens when you as couples lose interest in each other?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • You are bored to interact with your spouse.<\/li>\n
  • You are no longer attracted towards your spouse.<\/li>\n
  • You do not observe the goodness of your spouse.<\/li>\n
  • You drift along your relationship in a name-sake togetherness.<\/li>\n
  • Your relationship becomes stale and dull.<\/li>\n
  • Your interaction with your spouse is routine and mundane.<\/li>\n
  • You scarcely look at your spouse when you lose interest in him\\her.<\/li>\n
  • You make a big deal about his\\her minor faults after marriage.<\/li>\n
  • You never utter a word of appreciation after marriage.<\/li>\n
  • You never demonstrate the love you have for your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Sad, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

    The interest of the audience makes a film a grand success.<\/p>\n

    A film star has a great fan following because his fans are interested in him.<\/p>\n

    When something creates great interest, it is a great success. When something does not create any interest, it is doomed to be a miserable failure.<\/p>\n

    When couples lose interest in each other, their marriage is also doomed to be a miserable failure.<\/a><\/p>\n

    Why do you feel disinterested about your spouse?<\/p>\n

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    • You get so used to your spouse that you scarcely notice anything about him\\her after the initial glow of your marriage fades.<\/li>\n
    • Your feel your spouse is more of a person who resides in the same house because you married him\\her.<\/li>\n
    • You no longer feel emotionally bonded to your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Do you know your lack of interest makes your marriage fall flat on its face?<\/a><\/p>\n

      You get so used to your spouse being with you that you are no more excited about him\\her. You no longer want to spend time with your spouse. In fact, there are times when you want to be alone, without the presence of your spouse.<\/p>\n

      Who is in the wrong for this stalemate?<\/p>\n

      The fault lies with both. Both never make any efforts to make yourself interesting to your spouse.<\/p>\n

      Most couples lost interest in each other because of the same reasons.<\/p>\n

      Simple tricks to rekindle your interest in each other<\/strong><\/p>\n

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      • Demonstrate your love for each other openly and explicitly.<\/li>\n
      • Keep communicating with your spouse. When you do not communicate, it becomes a habit. A very bad habit at that.<\/li>\n
      • Make your interaction friendly and enjoyable.<\/li>\n
      • Small talk with your spouse. Topics like movies, sports, hobbies, and film stars are non-controversial and you can extend your conversation without arguing about it.<\/li>\n
      • Avoid sensitive topics like religion, physical appearance of your spouse and his\\her upbringing.<\/li>\n
      • Enjoy being together.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        What happens when you are interested in your spouse?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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        • You enjoy your togetherness.<\/li>\n
        • You are friendly with each other<\/li>\n
        • You communicate with your spouse, always and every time.<\/li>\n
        • You are supportive when he\\she needs your emotional back up.<\/li>\n
        • You have easy interaction with your spouse as you have so much to talk to him\\her.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          What should you do to sustain your interest in your spouse?<\/strong><\/p>\n

          Be curious and observing about your spouse. When you are curious about something, you take incredible interest in it.<\/p>\n

          Be attentive when your spouse interacts with you.<\/p>\n

          Be demonstrative in your love for your spouse.<\/p>\n

          Be friendly with your spouse.<\/p>\n

          Be caring towards your spouse.<\/p>\n

          Couples lose interest in each other because they fail to understand the nuances of making their marriage work.<\/p>\n

          Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n

          \u2018The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life.\u2019- William Morris<\/strong><\/p>\n

          Your marriage life should be like reading a new book.<\/p>\n

          Not like reading the same pages repeatedly. Not like watching the same movie repeatedly.<\/p>\n

          Becomes very boring, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

          When you are interested in your spouse, you see him\\her in a different light daily. You find new things that attract you to him\\her.<\/p>\n

          The unique mannerisms of your spouse interest you.<\/p>\n

          The way your spouse handles family problems make you feel emotionally inclined towards him\\her.<\/p>\n

          Of course, you cannot maintain the initial frenzied passion of your early marriage days.<\/p>\n

          But when interest is prevalent in your married life, a more mature and mellow love develops between you. It makes your relationship even more valuable.<\/p>\n

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          You will find the channel interesting and useful to you and your spouse <\/strong><\/p>\n

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