{"id":3273,"date":"2015-10-20T19:38:49","date_gmt":"2015-10-20T14:08:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=3273"},"modified":"2019-10-12T23:20:19","modified_gmt":"2019-10-13T04:20:19","slug":"how-to-apologize-to-your-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/how-to-apologize-to-your-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"The top 5 proper ways to apologize to your spouse after a bitter fight"},"content":{"rendered":"
Mostly you never apologize to your spouse even after uttering words which terribly hurt him\\her.<\/p>\n
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Do you know that unless you apologize to your spouse, he\\she becomes a storehouse of resentment and bitterness against you?<\/p>\n
There are many reasons why you never apologize to your spouse.<\/p>\n
Insensitive attitude on your part, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n
You definitely know that the fight you had with your spouse has made him\\her resentful and bitter against you. But you never make any efforts to pacify him\\her.<\/p>\n
Instead, you add fuel to fire by wandering about as if nothing happened. Your wildly angry spouse fumes and frets at your uncaring attitude.<\/p>\n
Do you know how much lack of apology affects your relationship?<\/p>\n
In fact, it can become a serious marriage wrecker.<\/p>\n
\u2018The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left undone.\u2019 \u2013Harriet Beecher Stowe<\/strong><\/p>\n It is true that words said in anger has no meaning. It is a momentary flash of temperament. But you cannot let your behavior go unexplained to your spouse.<\/p>\n Unless you apologize to your spouse, the resentment caused by your harsh words makes negative inroads into your relationship.<\/p>\n When there is no proper and appropriate explanation for your unpleasant behavior, your spouse emotionally drifts away from you.<\/p>\n So, lack of apology leaves a deep scar of hostility in the mind of your spouse.<\/a><\/p>\n Never allow this to happen to your marriage.<\/p>\n You have a trouble shooter in your hand to pacify your spouse. It has the incredible ability to untie the harm you had done to your relationship by your unthinking arguments and fights.<\/p>\n Are you wondering what it is?<\/p>\n It is your apology to your spouse.<\/p>\n \u2018I never expect my colleagues\\relatives\\friends to apologize to me,\u2019 you might well argue.<\/p>\n Why is it you overlook the hurt others inflict on you?<\/p>\n How is it you do not expect any apology from them?<\/p>\n When your colleagues\\friends\\relatives say hurting words you easily forget it, as they mean nothing to you emotionally.<\/p>\n But your relationship with your spouse is emotional, committed, and responsible. It is close to your heart. You have great expectations about your spouse. You want him\\her to love you.<\/p>\n This is the reason you feel terrible and miserable when your spouse coolly walks away without apologizing to you after a bitter fight.<\/p>\n You do understand that arguments and fights are part of your marriage.<\/p>\n But you feel very unhappy and depressed when your spouse ignores your sensitivity, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n You are enraged when your spouse never apologizes to you. Your spouse also never realizes that a few understanding words can soothe your bitterness.<\/p>\n Yes.<\/p>\n