{"id":4125,"date":"2016-02-19T11:50:04","date_gmt":"2016-02-19T06:20:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=4125"},"modified":"2021-04-18T02:55:40","modified_gmt":"2021-04-18T07:55:40","slug":"joint-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/joint-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Joint family \u2013 Emotional problems couples face"},"content":{"rendered":"
Is it possible to enjoy your married life living in a joint family?<\/p>\n
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Absolutely not.<\/p>\n
Do you know why?<\/p>\n
Joint family is good only when it is lived the proper way. Unless you co-exist in harmony with your in-laws you can never have a moment of peace. The sad thing about joint family is that you must forever be adjusting with your in-laws.<\/p>\n
You must be prepared to suppress your individuality.<\/p>\n
And the worst thing about joint family is your denied rights.<\/p>\n
You often fight with your spouse about this, don’t \u00a0you?<\/p>\n
Now shall we see the pros and cons of a joint family?<\/strong><\/p>\n
The pros of a joint family.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n
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You have elders to guide you when you make mistakes.<\/li>\n
Your children do not feel lonely as they have their cousins to play with.<\/li>\n
When you are out to work, your parents look after your children.<\/li>\n
No one suffers from dearth of money as everyone\u2019s income is pooled as a mutual family fund.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
The cons of joint family which is quite too many<\/strong><\/p>\n
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There is complete lack of privacy between you and your spouse.<\/li>\n
Bickering among family members become a big family feud.<\/li>\n
You cannot make any individual decisions on your own.<\/li>\n
The top earning member feels leeched off his\\her money.<\/li>\n
There is too much internal family politics.<\/li>\n
You are always under a scanner.<\/li>\n
Elders are too interfering into your personal life.<\/li>\n
They are too conservative to understand your modern outlook.<\/li>\n
Your individuality is crushed as you are compelled to abide by mutual family laws.<\/li>\n
Your parents feel apprehensive to visit you as they do not know how they will be received by your in-laws.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n