Naturally you are enraged by the audacious behavior of your spouse.<\/p>\n

Your spouse is distrusting your loyalty. You cannot bear to tolerate it.<\/p>\n

What makes you angry when your spouse behaves in such a suspicious way?<\/p>\n

Your integrity is being questioned.<\/p>\n

Your loyalty towards your spouse is suspected.<\/p>\n

“When suspicion enters marriage through the back door, happiness in the family goes through the front door” my mother always tells me.<\/p>\n

She is hundred percent correct.<\/p>\n

Suspicion in marriage destroys your marital happiness. When your spouse doubts your activities, you do not have a moment of peace.<\/p>\n

The suspicion driven mind of your spouse assumes the worst about your loyalty towards him\\her. You come under his\\her doubting scanner.<\/p>\n

What happens when your spouse is suspicious about you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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• Your spouse becomes frenzied with anger when you are a wee bit late from your work.<\/li>\n
• Your doubting spouse assumes that you are disloyal to him\\her even when you talk with your friends\\relatives\\colleagues.<\/li>\n
• Your spouse is distrustful by your professional friendliness with the opposite sex.<\/li>\n
• He\\she keeps calling you spouse to check your whereabouts.<\/li>\n
• Your spouse doubtfully checks your social media activities.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  What makes your spouse feel suspicious about you?<\/h3>\n

  Over possessiveness makes your spouse feel that you do not love him\\her enough. So, he\\she has all sorts of doubts about you.<\/p>\n

  When your are late from work, the imagination of your spouse runs wild.<\/p>\n

  “You are having fun with your friends\\colleagues behind my back” your spouse is decisive about your disloyalty towards him\\her. Inevitably there is a hostile showdown between you. Your tired and demoralized mindset feels enraged by the outrageous imagination of your suspicious spouse.<\/p>\n

  Lack of confidence is yet another breeding ground for suspicion in marriage.<\/p>\n

  Suspicion actually breeds in an unhealthy and unsure mind. When your spouse has low self-esteem, he\\she is envious about your success. He\\she sees everything about you in a doubting manner.<\/p>\n

  Your friendliness with the opposite sex is assumed as flirting by your spouse. Even your professional call to your colleagues is evesdropped by your suspicious spouse.<\/p>\n

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  • Suspicion makes your interaction with your spouse very tensed and heated up.<\/li>\n
  • When he\\she asks you doubting and provoking questions, you are furious about his\\her attitude.<\/li>\n
  • The suspicious nature of your spouse makes you fight bitterly with him\\her.<\/li>\n
  • You become mentally tired trying to prove your loyalty to your doubting spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    The bitterness and resentment the suspicious nature of your spouse brings into your relationship finally destroys your marriage.<\/p>\n

    In married life mutual trust and love for each other is an absolute necessity for your relationship to thrive.<\/p>\n

    My experience<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    I had an excellent friendship with my husband. The trust we had in each other was as strong as iron.<\/p>\n

    A member of his family was out to destroy our relationship. I started having anonymous calls from a woman who said that she was his wife.<\/p>\n

    “Do you know I have two sons and your husband in their father? I have equal rights over him” she blabbered.<\/p>\n

    Yes. The woman was blabbering.<\/p>\n

    Not for one second did I doubt my husband. I trusted him implicitly and without an iota of doubt.<\/p>\n

    I did not answer back but banged the phone down.<\/p>\n

    “So you have another family. Is she so beautiful that you married her also? But I fail to see what she sees in you” I teased my husband after telling him about the call.<\/p>\n

    “I cannot manage with one wife.  How can I manage two wives” my husband smiled back. Both of us burst out laughing. The poor woman never knew she did not bring up even a small dust of suspicion into our relationship.<\/p>\n

    That should be the faith in your marriage!<\/p>\n

    Strong and intense!<\/p>\n

    Never ever allow suspicion enter your relationship. Everything is lost in your marriage when there is no trust between you.<\/p>\n

    How to avoid suspicion in marriage?<\/h3>\n

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    • There should be no misconstruing the activities of each other.<\/li>\n
    • Both should not wrongly assume that there is cheating going on behind your back.<\/li>\n
    • Both should never ever check the mobile phones of each other.<\/li>\n
    • No eavesdropping between you.<\/li>\n
    • Do not try to confirm your doubts through a third person. This mistake creates terrible negative impact in your relationship.<\/li>\n
    • If any of you have valid reasons to suspect the fidelity of the other, ask your doubts directly.<\/li>\n
    • Accept the clarifications and explanations given without reservations.<\/li>\n
    • There should be no repeated suspicious allegations about being cheated.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Conclusion <\/strong><\/p>\n

      \u2018To be suspicious is not a fault. To be suspicious all the time without coming to a conclusion is the defect.\u2019 \u2013Lu Xun<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Suspicion in marriage is like an octopus which crushes your marriage by its awesome tentacles. You find it near impossible to remain in a marriage when you are being doubted.<\/p>\n

      What is to you is for your spouse also. Never become suspicious because of your imaginary doubts. Build trust into your relationship. Trust your each other wholeheartedly. It makes your relationship go from strength to strength.<\/p>\n\n\n

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