During yester year\u2019s husband was the sole earning member of the family. The wife stayed back at home to look after her family. She did her household work by herself. But she had time to relax till her husband and children returned home.<\/p>\n

But modern woman has two duties combined.<\/p>\n

An earning wife who contributes for the financial commitments of her family.<\/p>\n

And also home maker who looks after her husband and children.<\/p>\n

What does this lead to?<\/p>\n

Your wife has no rest time at all. She slaves at her workplace and slogs at home also.<\/p>\n

Your wife earns as good as you. She contributes equally to the financial betterment of your family. She does not depend on you for her personal needs as she has her own money.<\/p>\n

Her financial independence has made her very confident and demanding.<\/p>\n

This is the topmost reason why your wife demands equal rights in almost everything.<\/p>\n

Her one such demand is that you should share her household chores.<\/p>\n

Quite a normal wish, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

You should be realistic to understand that you can no longer treat your wife as your maid born to do service to you. Remember that she is a highly independent individual.<\/p>\n

With today’s inflation at its peak, your wife is the reason you live a comfortable life.<\/p>\n

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• You have a good standard of living.<\/li>\n
• You live in a big bungalow.<\/li>\n
• You drive around in a swanky car.<\/li>\n
• You own all the latest modern electronic gadgets.<\/li>\n
• You dine in high end restaurants.<\/li>\n
• You are very fashionable and wear trendy dresses.<\/li>\n
• You give your children the best education.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  You cannot make all this happen with your earnings alone. You need the earnings of your wife for the financial well-being of your family.<\/p>\n

  Your wife works for the sake of the family.<\/p>\n

  Can you see how natural it is for your wife to expect you to share her household chores?<\/p>\n

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  • She has work related stress just like you.<\/li>\n
  • She is tired and fatigued just like you.<\/li>\n
  • She needs rest just like you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    How can you expect her to slave in her workplace to come back to slave at home also?<\/p>\n

    Is she a machine to mechanically do her household chores without tiredness after a hectic day in her workplace?<\/p>\n

    Do you know you commit the worst ever blunder when you hide yourself behind the newspaper or plump yourself before the laptop\\TV after returning from work?<\/p>\n

    Your tired wife literally fumes with frenzied anger at your callous behavior. This is the reason why she erupts in fury when you do not share her household chores.<\/p>\n

    You need her earnings for the betterment of the family, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

    You do not have any prestige issue in accepting her financial help.<\/p>\n

    But why do you feel it demeaning to share her household work?<\/p>\n

    Your wife wants you to care and sympathize with her tiredness.<\/p>\n

    Do these simple things to make your wife feel cared and loved.<\/p>\n

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    • Share her household chores willingly.<\/li>\n
    • Help her in looking after your children.<\/li>\n
    • Assist her in keeping the house clean.<\/li>\n
    • Give her reprieve from kitchen duty by showing your culinary talents.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Conclusion<\/h4>\n

      Your wife loves you when you share her household chores. Change along with the changed trends in married life. Acknowledge that your wife is your equal partner and not your maid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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