Is your a happy marriage or a miserable marriage?<\/p>\n

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Every couple wants to enjoy a happy married life. But only a lucky few are gifted with a relationship which is satisfying and fulfilling to them.<\/p>\n

Why are some marriages happy and enjoyable, while most marriages are abject failures?<\/p>\n

If your marriage is enjoyable, you are the reason behind it. If your marriage is miserable, then too you are the reason behind it.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

It is a harsh fact that no one else can make your marriage defeated except you and your spouse. No one can intrude into your married life to make it miserable. No one can contribute to make your marriage happy.<\/p>\n

Marriage is one relationship which is made happy or miserable by just two persons. You and your spouse.<\/p>\n

Shall we now see the top 5 differences between a happy marriage and a miserable marriage <\/strong><\/h2>\n

The no 1 sign of a happy marriage is relentless love for each other <\/strong><\/p>\n

You love each other intensely. You care for the emotions of your spouse.<\/p>\n

Your unconditional love makes you overlook the minor faults of your spouse. You never convert the faults of your spouse into a relationship issue.<\/p>\n

You give the personal space due to your spouse. You understand that though your spouse loves you, he or she needs his or her own space. You do not make the demand of your spouse for personal space into a topic to fight with him or her.<\/p>\n

Naturally your spouse feels comfortable and relaxed in his or her relationship with you.<\/p>\n

You respect the family of your spouse. And your spouse respects your family. This mutual respect for the family of each other does away with many needless confrontations between you.<\/p>\n

You love your spouse for what he\\she is. You do not want your spouse to change according to your liking. And your spouse loves you for this quality.<\/p>\n

You are able to share your innermost feelings with your spouse. And your spouse too has no reservations in sharing his or her deepest emotions with you.<\/p>\n

When your marriage is miserable, love becomes the most missing element in your relationship. <\/strong><\/p>\n

When your marriage is miserable, there is no true love between you.<\/p>\n

Both often accuse each other as the culprit behind the issues that creep into your relationship.<\/p>\n

You are unable to share your feelings with your spouse as you know you will not get emotional support from him or her.<\/p>\n

You have lost all love and respect for each other and feel completely alienated in your relationship.<\/p>\n

You are denied your personal space when your spouse clings to you 24\\7 in the name of love. And you too deny your spouse his or her personal space by wanting him or her all for yourself.<\/p>\n

The<\/strong> no<\/strong> 2. Sign of a happy marriage is affable discussion and mutual decision between you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you are living through a happy marriage, you discuss important family issues with your spouse, amicably and reasonably. You respect the views of your spouse.<\/p>\n

You do not feel egoistic to accept the decision of your spouse if it is better than yours.<\/p>\n

When you want to help your parents, you have no reservations in telling your spouse about it, as you know that he\\she will not object.<\/p>\n

You understand the importance of personal money and so you do not interfere too much into the financial independence of your spouse.<\/p>\n

In your miserable marriage, there are none of these essential qualities.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You and your spouse live like two different islands. Both make individual decisions without consulting each other.<\/p>\n

Your spouse does what he\\she feels is right and you do what you think is right.<\/p>\n

When there are no discussions and no mutual decisions between you, you do not feel like a family.<\/p>\n

The no 3. Sign of a happy marriage is there is absolute transparency between you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Your spouse knows everything about you, because you do not hide anything from him or her.<\/p>\n

Your spouse also shares his\\her secrets with you so that there is absolute transparency in your relationship.<\/p>\n

You inform your spouse if you will be late from work. You also share the reason behind why you have to stay back in your workplace. This makes your spouse relaxed and comfortable as he or she need not worry about when you will be back from your workplace.<\/p>\n

You do not spend long hours away from home without informing your spouse. You have the confidence to confide your unhappy past to your spouse, because you know he or she will understand you without doubting you.<\/p>\n

You do not hush-hush talk in the mobile for hours making your spouse suspicious.<\/p>\n

There are lots of hush-hush secrets in a miserable married life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You hide everything from your spouse as you do not feel emotionally connected with him or her.<\/p>\n

You do not inform your spouse about your whereabouts.<\/p>\n

You talk in low tones for hours in your mobile without informing your spouse about the person you were so interestingly talking to.<\/p>\n

Your spouse never knows your income, savings or your increment as you do not want him\\her to know about it.<\/p>\n

The no 4. Quality of a happy marriage is there is no nagging and domination between you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You do not dominate your spouse and he or she does not dominate you.<\/p>\n

Both value the views of each other as very important.<\/p>\n

When your spouse does something different from your way of doing things, you understand that it is his or her individuality.<\/p>\n

You understand that your spouse is an individual who has an entirely different way of doing things and you respect him or her for it.<\/p>\n

Even if your spouse does something which is not according to your liking, you do not nag him or her about it.<\/p>\n

You explain in a reasonable manner why you do not like the way your spouse does certain things. And needless to say, your spouse listens to you.<\/p>\n

Nagging and domination are part and parcel of a miserable<\/strong> married life<\/strong><\/p>\n

You feel you know everything better than your spouse and want your word to be the final verdict.<\/p>\n

You do not listen to the views of your spouse and dictate terms and conditions to be followed to the dot by him or her.<\/p>\n

Whenever your spouse does something not to your liking, you nag him or her threadbare about it.<\/p>\n

The no 5. Quality of a happy marriage is the absolute support and protection you give each other<\/strong><\/p>\n

You do not demean your spouse to prove that you are way ahead of him or her. You spring to the support of your spouse when anyone tries to demean him or her.<\/p>\n

When your spouse is downcast, you immediately feel protective towards him or her. You feel that the problems of your spouse concern you also.<\/p>\n

You do not in any way isolate yourself from the problems of your spouse as though it was none of your business.<\/p>\n

The<\/strong> complete emotional unfriendliness in a miserable married life<\/strong><\/p>\n

You verbally abuse your spouse that he or she feels terribly hurt and emotionally wounded.<\/p>\n

You leave your spouse to fend for himself or herself when he or she is in a problem as you feel it is none of your business.<\/p>\n

You take sadistic pleasure in comparing your spouse with others. You pass derogatory comments about your spouse before your friends\\family\\relatives.<\/p>\n

Can you see the volume of differences between a happy married life and a miserable married life?<\/p>\n

I am sure you would never dream of being in a relationship which feels miserable and wretched.<\/p>\n

The excellent qualities of a good marriage do not come by itself.\u00a0 You must embed it into your relationship.<\/p>\n

But a miserable marriage needs no contribution from you to make it wretched as it accelerates to failure on its own as you are disinterested in the elements of good marriage.<\/p>\n

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