{"id":4371,"date":"2016-04-02T11:23:34","date_gmt":"2016-04-02T05:53:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=4371"},"modified":"2021-04-26T04:00:40","modified_gmt":"2021-04-26T09:00:40","slug":"lonely-and-alone-in-your-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/lonely-and-alone-in-your-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Feeling lonely and alone in your marriage – Reasons and solutions"},"content":{"rendered":"
Feeling lonely<\/strong> and alone<\/strong> in<\/strong> your<\/strong> marriage<\/strong> is the ultimate misery of your relationship.<\/p>\n “I feel lonely in my relationship. And it is literally killing me” the chocked voice of Anita, my friend bewildered me.<\/p>\n Anita was married to a very affluent businessman. She was envied by many for her wealth. I too thought she was very happy and content in her relationship. Naturally I was shocked when Anita confided about loneliness in her marriage.<\/p>\n “You have your children who adore you. And your husband is a kind man. How can you feel lonely and alone in your marriage?” I asked her with confusion.<\/p>\n “Yes, my children love me. \u00a0My husband is very responsible and successful. But inspite of it, I feel empty in my married life” my friend said with uncontrollable unhappiness.<\/p>\n ‘Why do you say so?’ \u00a0I asked Anita worryingly.<\/p>\n “Well, my children are busy with their own work. They have no time for me. My husband is also too busy with his business schedules. Sometimes I do nott see him for months” Anita continued with sadness enveloping her face.<\/p>\n Now I began to get the picture of her married life. Very lonely indeed.<\/p>\n “I feel like a robot doing my work mechanically. I have no one to share my inner feelings.\u00a0 My interaction with my husband is almost always matter of fact. There is no love in his words.\u00a0 How can I feel sheltered when all through my married life I spent my time all alone? The loneliness I feel is terrifying” Anita shuddered with unhappiness.<\/p>\n My friend was right.<\/p>\n Feeling alone and alone in your marriage can make you feel lost and sad.<\/p>\n Loneliness is a terrible feeling in your married life. It eats into your emotions making you feel you are all alone in the whole world.<\/p>\n Do you know you can feel lonely and alone in your marriage even when you are with your spouse?<\/p>\n Are wondering how?<\/p>\n Your relationship with your spouse can be happy and content only when there is beautiful sharing of emotions and responsibilities between you.<\/p>\n But in reality, after your marriage, your relationship becomes very complicated and complex to you.<\/p>\n Your energy level is low. You often feel hyped up and edgy. Your interaction with your spouse is frequently argumentative and hostile.<\/p>\n Stress and tension makes it impossible to share your inner feelings with your spouse. You also know he\\she would never be empathetic. This makes you withdraw from your spouse mentally and emotionally.<\/p>\n When there is no emotional sharing between you, you feel lonely and alone in your married life.<\/p>\n A common feeling many modern couples suffer in their relationship.<\/p>\nFeeling lonely and alone in your marriage has the after effect of a hurricane.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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