How terrifying your relationship is.<\/p>\n

<iframe width=”900″ height=”506″ src=”https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1f1H86gWjdo” frameborder=”0″ allow=”accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture” allowfullscreen><\/iframe>What is the core of a partnership?<\/span><\/p>\n

It is all about equal rights, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

When your rights are denied by your egoistic husband you feel your married life a terrible bore. You want to break free from him to enjoy the freshness of independence.<\/p>\n

You are right in feeling so.<\/p>\n

You are after all an adult with a mind of your own, aren’t you?<\/p>\n

Your husband has no right to take over your life.<\/p>\n

How do you feel when your husband is egoistic?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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• You look with longing at your friends\\colleagues enjoying total freedom in their married life.<\/li>\n
• You too want the freedom to live your life as you want to.<\/li>\n
• There are times you want to divorce your husband.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  But divorce is not an answer to handle your egoistic husband.<\/p>\n

  You need tons of patience to come out of such mind crushing situation.<\/p>\n

  Analyze the reasons behind the egoistic behavior of your husband.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • He might be suffering from inferiority complex<\/li>\n
  • He might be a byproduct of an abusive childhood.<\/li>\n
  • You might be more successful than him.<\/li>\n
  • He might be feeling emotionally insecure.<\/li>\n
  • He might be tensed by work related problems.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Inferiority complex instills a feeling of insecurity in your husband. In order to hide it he tries to put on a show of dominance. He vents his anger on you by controlling you. He can control only you, not others. So he controls you.<\/p>\n

    Being firm and decisive in dealing with your egoistic husband is the only way out.<\/h2>\n

    “I envy my friends who enjoy total freedom in their married life” my neighbor told me.<\/p>\n

    The poor thing was in complete mercy of her dominating husband and would talk to me only when he was away.<\/p>\n

    “I don\u2019t know what to do. I think I will go mad if my husband keeps on behaving in such a controlling way” she sighed with frustration.<\/p>\n

    My neighbor was right in feeling suppressed in her married\u00a0 life.<\/p>\n

    How can she enjoy her married life when her husband ruled over her?<\/p>\n

    “Talk to him frankly about your hurt. Tell him that you do not like his behavior. The trick is to be patient. Do not expect him to change overnight.”<\/p>\n

    “Be confident and firm in saying no to his dominating demands” I advised her.<\/p>\n

    Soon her husband got transferred and I lost touch with her after that.<\/p>\n

    I was watching TV when the doorbell rang shrilly. I opened the door to find my neighbor smiling happily. Surprisingly it was her husband who dropped her.<\/p>\n

    She smiled at my stunned look.<\/p>\n

    “Well, he has changed. Don\u2019t think I did it easily. There were times when I just wanted to walk away. I stayed back for the sake of my children. Years after reasoning and being patient has finally won the battle for me” she hugged me. I was very happy for her.<\/p>\n

    “My only regret is that he could have changed a little earlier so that I could have enjoyed my youth much better” she laughed.<\/p>\n

    Yes.<\/p>\n

    You need tons of patience in dealing with your egoistic husband.<\/p>\n

    How exactly do you handle your egoistic husband?<\/h3>\n

    When your husband tries to interfere in each and every one of your personal wishes, you should be firm in saying you do not like it.<\/p>\n

    The message that you need your space should be conveyed to him authentically.<\/p>\n

    If you are submissive to his unreasonable demands, he gathers strength from your meekness and tries to take hold of your life.<\/p>\n

    Do not ask permission to fulfill your wishes. But inform him about it.<\/p>\n

    Never ever show your egoistic husband that you are unnerved by his dominance.<\/p>\n

    You should be confident and assertive. Men never mess up with a confident woman.<\/p>\n

    Conclusion<\/h4>\n

    \u201cTrue love is built on free will and free choice, not control and manipulation.\u201d \u2015 Ken Poirot
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    Married life survives on mutual trust and respect. You cannot love a person just because he is your husband.<\/p>\n

    You need your spacing to retain your individuality. You can never forgo your uniqueness. Your egoistic husband should realize it before it is too late.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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