1. Be realistic<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Break up can make you sad and unwanted. It also makes you feel that your life is not worth living without the person you sincerely loved.<\/p>\n

It is true your heart aches with pain when your ardent love is ignored and insulted by the person you loved.<\/p>\n

It makes you want to forget yourself by indulging in drugs and alcohol, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

How sad.<\/p>\n

What are you trying to prove?<\/p>\n

Do you want the person who thrust you aside to feel that you cannot exist without her\\him?<\/p>\n

Be realistic to realize that failures are a part and parcel in everyone\u2019s life. If failure has to make a person forgo all happiness in life, the majority of the people in this world should be unhappy and miserable.<\/p>\n

Your heart might ache by your break up. \u00a0But you should take a pragmatic outlook towards life. When you make yourself depressed by unwanted thoughts about your lost love, you deprive yourself of all the good things in life.<\/p>\n

Have you seen a stream remaining stagnant in one place?<\/p>\n

It gushes forth energetically and so should your life. When you see life in its proper perspective, you realize that you have lost only a worthless person who never reciprocated your true love.<\/p>\n

2. Move away from that place<\/strong><\/p>\n

Get away from the place so that you can easily overcome your love breakup.<\/p>\n

Does the company you work for have other branches?<\/p>\n

If they do, you can ask for transfer to another branch. You are in no way a coward if you move away from the place.<\/p>\n

It will be like a new life for you – new people, new atmosphere and new place to live in. it becomes easy for you get over your bitter memories. It helps you digest your break up and start your life afresh.<\/p>\n

3. Concentrate on your work<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your concentration in your work can act as a great stress reliever from your love \u00a0breakup.<\/p>\n

Improvise the know-how about your work. Work with dedicated interest to make yourself successful. Success in your job gives you an elevated feeling. As you forge ahead in life your break \u00a0up becomes a thing of past.<\/p>\n

Your dejection and depression also becomes a forgotten incident in your life.<\/p>\n

4. Divert your mind<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your mind does what you tell it to do.<\/p>\n

When you tell your mind that you cannot forget your love it reacts in making you feel depressed and dejected.<\/p>\n

Your mind concentrates on your love breakup and makes your life torturous and agonizing.<\/p>\n

But when you divert your mind from your failed love it immediately springs into action to make you lead a normal life. It is your mindset that decides whether you are going to wallow in self-pity and ruin your life. \u00a0Or whether you are going to gear yourself up to face life with grit and positive energy.<\/p>\n

5. When he\\she can lead a normal life, why can\u2019t you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You must not lose your life for a worthless person.<\/p>\n

When the person you ardently loved can be happy why can\u2019t you lead a normal happy life?<\/p>\n

It is good that the person showed his\\her true self before marriage. Be thankful for that.<\/p>\n

Do not waste your life and your future for someone who did not love you as you did.<\/p>\n

Life should go on and it should go on with confidence.<\/p>\n

When your past lover had the guts to graze a greener pasture, why make your life dry and parched for a selfish love?<\/p>\n

When she\\he can smile without you, so can you without her\\him. Life stops for no one and goes on and on. You should move along and forget what should be forgotten. When you shove aside your love breakup ruthlessly, a new door of selfless love might open up to you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Love breakup from the person you dearly loved can make you feel tremendously depressed. The lost feeling you experience after losing your love makes you think that you can never be happy in your life. \u2018Now that you\u2019re gone, I am feeling lonely and sad. I never thought that love could make me feel this […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[556,326,673,879],"yoast_head":"\n