{"id":4921,"date":"2016-11-28T19:39:52","date_gmt":"2016-11-29T00:39:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=4921"},"modified":"2016-11-28T19:39:52","modified_gmt":"2016-11-29T00:39:52","slug":"deal-emotional-abuse-marriage-shatters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/deal-emotional-abuse-marriage-shatters\/","title":{"rendered":"How to deal with emotional abuse in marriage? Has shattering impact"},"content":{"rendered":"

Emotional abuse makes your married life very stressful and tensed, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

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Why?<\/p>\n

It is because emotions rule your relationship. When your emotions is respected by your spouse you enjoy a good married life. But when your emotions are abused by him\\her your married life dives into failure.<\/p>\n

Do you feel marriage gives you all rights over your spouse?<\/p>\n

No.<\/p>\n

Do you think you can abuse your spouse and get away with it?<\/p>\n

No.<\/p>\n

Your rights over your spouse has its own restrictions. There should be a respectful dividing line when you interact with your spouse. When you exceed your limitations your married life slowly loses its sheen.<\/p>\n

What is emotional abuse in reality?<\/a><\/p>\n

When you misuse your marital rights it is point-blank emotional abuse.<\/p>\n

It shatters the sensitivity of your spouse to the extent that he\\she begins to resent you. When you crush the emotions of your spouse your relationship plunges into utter chaos.<\/p>\n

Marriage does give you certain rights over your spouse. But it in no way gives you rights to be emotionally abusive.<\/p>\n

Your marriage can survive only when there is certain restrictions in your interaction with your spouse.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

There is definite limitations to the level of advantage you can take over your spouse.<\/p>\n

Why is it so?<\/p>\n

Imagine a country without a border!<\/p>\n

Imagine a school without rules and regulations?<\/p>\n

Imagine a work place without any restrictions?<\/p>\n

It will be utter chaos and confusion everywhere – A free for all with everyone doing their own thing.<\/p>\n

This is the reason why there are restraints everywhere in the world. In actual fact it is this dividing line which makes the world more civilized and cultured. Otherwise we might as well be living in a forest.<\/p>\n

Are you wondering what this has got to do with your marriage relationship?<\/p>\n

It has everything to do with it.<\/p>\n

Marriage too has its own rules and regulations.<\/p>\n