Questions and more questions plague your mind.<\/p>\n

Who makes the most mistakes?<\/p>\n

Is it the husband or wife?<\/p>\n

Both are equal culprits in dooming your marriage to a pitiable failure.<\/p>\n

You forget that your married life needs many intricate qualities. And both have to contribute equally to make your marriage last till you live.<\/p>\n

Shall we look at those top 10 beautiful qualities which makes your married life stable?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

1. Mutual Commitment<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be dedicated to your commitments and duties as a husband\\wife.<\/p>\n

Never expect your spouse to be the lone contributor to your relationship as if you did not have any duties.<\/p>\n

When sharing family commitments is one-sided the extra burden on your spouse makes him\\her keyed up and stressed.<\/p>\n

Mutual commitment begets mutual respect and love from your spouse.<\/p>\n

2. Like your responsibilities<\/strong><\/p>\n

You are not responsible for some third-party, are you?<\/p>\n

You are being responsible for your family. So like it.<\/p>\n

Do not argue with your spouse about sharing your responsibilities. It makes your relationship very hostile and aggressive.<\/p>\n

Being responsible on compulsion is not good enough to make your married life stable.<\/p>\n

Be spontaneous and instant in sharing family issues and problems.<\/p>\n

When you do not shy away from family commitments it makes your spouse trust you.<\/p>\n

Willing responsibility signals the message that you care for your spouse.<\/p>\n

3. Mutual discussion<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you make crucial family decisions without consulting your spouse?<\/p>\n

Your spouse hates it.<\/p>\n

When you exclude him\\her in dealing with important family matters and take arbitrary decisions it hurts your relationship really bad.<\/p>\n

Do you want to know what happens when you discuss important family problems with your spouse?<\/p>\n

He\\she loves it.<\/p>\n

When there is mutual discussions both feel as a family.<\/p>\n

The views of your spouse makes you come to a right decision.<\/p>\n

4. Understanding the inner most emotions of your spouse<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your spouse feels lonely and lost when his\\her emotions are left unattended and uncared.<\/p>\n

Do you know why?<\/p>\n

Both undergo tremendous stress and tension in your work place. \u00a0You are bombarded with many problems in the outside world.<\/p>\n

You must have someone to share your feelings, mustn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

You must be intimate with your spouse to share your fears and misgivings. This ability to share your inner most emotions with your spouse easily makes your married life stable.<\/p>\n

5. Unconditional support makes your spouse feel sheltered<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you leave your spouse to fend for himself\\herself when he\\she has any personal problems?<\/p>\n

Your spouse feels isolated and unloved by you.<\/p>\n

He\\she feels that you are an unfeeling and insensitive spouse.<\/p>\n

This makes you gradually drift apart from each other.<\/p>\n

Never overlook your spouse as an outsider and destroy your relationship.<\/p>\n

Give unconditional support to him\\her.<\/p>\n

It is an incredible cementing force which makes your married life stable.<\/p>\n

6. Relentless love –\u00a0anytime and\u00a0<\/strong>every time<\/b><\/p>\n

Love always wins, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

It is very easy to be loving and caring when the going is good.<\/p>\n

But are you loving and caring when your spouse faces problems, failures and financial mess?<\/p>\n

Sadly you isolate yourself from your spouse as you feel his\\her issues and problems are not yours.<\/p>\n

A grave wrong.<\/p>\n

Love your spouse in his\\her failure.<\/p>\n

Be his\\her staunch supporter during his\\her miserable days.<\/p>\n

Trust the ability of your spouse even when he\\she is not successful.<\/p>\n

7. Forgoing your expectations<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you have great expectations about your marriage?<\/p>\n

You are invariably disappointed as each of your expectations come crashing to the ground.<\/p>\n

Why?<\/p>\n

You are dreamy about your spouse.<\/p>\n

You always think from your viewpoint.<\/p>\n

You never realize that your spouse need not have the same viewpoint as you. Being practical and down to earth in your expectations works wonders to make your married life stable.<\/p>\n

Your spouse can never be your clone.<\/p>\n

Accept him\\her for what he\\she is.<\/p>\n

8. Freedom and spacing<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your spouse is an individual. He\\she cannot always do what you want him\\her to do.<\/p>\n

Realize that your spouse has his\\her own desires and wishes.<\/p>\n

It is his\\her unique trait and you have no business to deny it.<\/p>\n

Never interfere in everything your spouse does.<\/p>\n

Allow your spouse his\\her very own personal space.<\/p>\n

A quality your marriage needs drastically.<\/p>\n

9. Self-confidence to handle family issues<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you fear family problems and lack assertiveness in dealing with it?<\/p>\n

Do you cringe away from handling it?<\/p>\n

Do you buckle under stress and thrust your frustrations on your spouse?<\/p>\n

Danger signals of your relationship.<\/p>\n

The pressure of dealing with your negativity and handling family issues all alone makes your spouse feel completely bored with you.<\/p>\n

10. The ability to handle money<\/strong><\/p>\n

Money makes your married life stable.<\/p>\n

Your relationship suffers when you do not know how to handle your hard-earned money.<\/p>\n

Do you know financial security means marriage stability?<\/p>\n

Your relationship cannot survive on love alone. \u00a0You need virtual cash to survive in this harsh world.<\/p>\n

So, save before you spend.<\/p>\n

Spend judiciously.<\/p>\n

But never be miserly. Your spouse hates it.<\/p>\n

Both should have your own\u00a0personal money.<\/p>\n

Be transparent in your money dealings.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/h4>\n

Marriage is a combined responsibility. Embed these very important qualities into your relationship to make your married life stable and secure.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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