Without these qualities your married life is as good as dead.<\/p>\n

Do you know that there are some unwanted qualities in your married life?<\/p>\n

They are the red flags of your relationship. Never overlook them. Avoid them at any cost if you want your marriage to survive.<\/p>\n

Top 5 red flags of married life \u2013 Stop before your relationship crashes<\/strong><\/h4>\n

1. You are completely indifferent<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Do you know indifference can literally kill your married life?<\/p>\n

When you are indifferent to the feelings of your spouse he\\she resents you.<\/p>\n

What are the ways you are indifferent towards your spouse?<\/p>\n

You do not console your spouse when he\\she is downcast and dejected.<\/p>\n

You never help your spouse through his\\her difficult times.<\/p>\n

You are so indifferent towards your spouse that you hardly notice him\\her. You live in the same house as islands.<\/p>\n

You never confide your inner feelings to your spouse.<\/p>\n

Both go for work. Both look after your children. Both have routine and compulsive sex.<\/p>\n

There is no loving interaction.\u00a0 No laughter. No sharing.<\/p>\n

A drab relationship.<\/p>\n

2. You never communicate<\/strong><\/p>\n

Communication is the essence of your married life.<\/p>\n

Before marriage you kept on talking with your spouse. After marriage you keep silent and mum.<\/p>\n

Do you feel talking about family issues with your spouse is what communication is all about?<\/p>\n

No.<\/p>\n

You should be able to talk about anything with your spouse.<\/p>\n

There should be no nagging fear that your spouse will take your words the wrong way.<\/p>\n

There should be transparency in your interaction.<\/p>\n

There should be mutual and frank discussion between you.<\/p>\n

You should explain why you did certain things the way your spouse did not want you to.<\/p>\n

You should voice your disagreement in an affable way.<\/p>\n

Does this sort of communication exist in your married life?<\/p>\n

Mostly it doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

3. You are ever criticizing<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you keep on making negative comments about your spouse?<\/p>\n

You do.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t like the way your spouse dresses \u2013 So you make fun of him\\her.<\/p>\n

You do not like the way your spouse does things \u2013 So you ridicule him\\her.<\/p>\n

You are very intent on finding faults with your spouse. And you are too concentrated in making your dissatisfaction very obvious and apparent.<\/p>\n

A very bad and disliked quality which literally makes your interaction hostile and oppressive.<\/p>\n

4. You are ever accusing<\/strong><\/p>\n

You play the accusing game to the hilt. Whenever there is a problem in your family you instantly pinpoint your spouse as the reason for it.<\/p>\n

This makes your spouse wild with anger.<\/p>\n

You accuse your spouse for the financial mess your family experiences.<\/p>\n

You accuse your spouse for your relationship problems.<\/p>\n

Marriage is a game played by two people \u2013 you and your spouse.<\/p>\n

You cannot always be right and your spouse cannot always be wrong.<\/p>\n

You have to accept your mistakes graciously.\u00a0 It is not a shame on you. In fact you acceptance tells your spouse that you are committed and accountable.<\/p>\n

5. You are completely self-centered<\/strong><\/p>\n

Being selfish is a quality your spouse totally dislikes about you.<\/p>\n

Selfishness makes you thrust your parents on your spouse.<\/p>\n

You want your spouse to bear the brunt of family\u2019s financial commitments.<\/p>\n

You always put yourself first.<\/p>\n

You never let go your comfort zone.<\/p>\n

You want your spouse to behave in a way you like.<\/p>\n

You want your spouse to change according to whims and wishes.<\/p>\n

Can you see the red flags of your relationship?<\/p>\n

If you ignore it the resentment your spouse feels against you can snowball into a marriage wrecker.<\/p>\n

Play fair in your relationship. Never be one-sided. The unhappiness of your spouse affects you also as you are in the same team.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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