Do you want to know the signs which show that your child is very unhappy with you?<\/p>\n

1. Being a loner<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Does your child spend most of his time alone?<\/p>\n

Does he feel uncomfortable in your company?<\/p>\n

Is he always withdrawn and morose?<\/p>\n

Top signs of an unhappy child.<\/p>\n

It signals that you are very strict and stringent with him. When you keep on reprimanding him, he never wants to interact with you.<\/p>\n

Solution<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be a friendly parent.<\/p>\n

Never be too harsh on his small mistakes.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too advising or too preaching.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t always command him.<\/p>\n

2. Throwing temperamental tantrums<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you do not cater to the inner needs of your child he throws up tantrums to draw your attention to him.<\/p>\n

How does your unhappy child show his anger?<\/p>\n

He throws things around.<\/p>\n

He tends to bawl\u00a0at the top of his voice.<\/p>\n

He refuses to obey you.<\/p>\n

Why does this happen?<\/p>\n

You let your child fend for himself and never spend quality time with him.<\/p>\n

You think buying things for him is your only parental duty.<\/p>\n

A grave blunder.<\/p>\n

Your unhappy child feels uncared and unloved by your unthinking attitude towards him.<\/p>\n

So he demands your attention by throwing tantrums.<\/p>\n

His bottled up resentment against you makes him behave violently at times.<\/p>\n

Solution<\/strong><\/p>\n

Understand the reason behind his tantrums.<\/p>\n

Spend quality time with your child.<\/p>\n

Talk to him frankly.<\/p>\n

Make him understand your love.<\/p>\n

3. Persistent lying<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your unhappy child often lies to you about almost everything.<\/p>\n

He hides his mistakes from you.<\/p>\n

He never confides anything to you.<\/p>\n

Why does your child lie to you?<\/p>\n

The mistake yet again lies with you.<\/p>\n

You never let him be a child.<\/p>\n

You want him to behave like an adult.<\/p>\n

You punish him in many ways \u2013shutting him in a dark room\\spanking him\\using abusive words.<\/p>\n

The result?<\/p>\n

Your unhappy child is terrified of you.<\/p>\n

He wants to escape from your harsh punishment.<\/p>\n

So, he begins to lie to escape your anger.<\/p>\n

Solution<\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember your child is very young. So, he is bound to make mistakes.<\/p>\n

He will learn precious lessons from his mistakes.<\/p>\n

Never be too punishing.<\/p>\n

Never spank your child.<\/p>\n

Never abuse him verbally and physically.<\/p>\n

4. Refusing to eat<\/strong><\/p>\n

Does your child refuse to eat?<\/p>\n

Does he often complain that he does not have appetite?<\/p>\n

If your child refuses food when he is healthy it clearly signals that he is undergoing tremendous stress.<\/p>\n

The reason is invariably you.<\/p>\n

You compare your child with others. He hates it. \u00a0He feels absolutely lacking in confidence. He feels so inferior about himself that he does not feel like eating.<\/p>\n

Solution<\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember that when your child loses his appetite his health is affected.<\/p>\n

Your child has his own pace. He cannot be what others are.<\/p>\n

Be an encouraging parent and not a discouraging one.<\/p>\n

5. He never interacts with you<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Does your child talk to you without interest?<\/p>\n

Does he reply in monosyllables?<\/p>\n

Does he not join you for family dinner?<\/p>\n

Does he keep to himself?<\/p>\n

Is it a yes to all these questions?<\/p>\n

Then he is an unhappy child.<\/p>\n

Solution<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do not keep advising him.<\/p>\n

Do not raise your voice against him.<\/p>\n

Use lots of endearments.<\/p>\n

He might talk out-of-the-way. Overlook it.<\/p>\n

Ask him about his day in school. Talk to him about sports\\movies. It makes your child unwind.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/h4>\n

Do you know an unhappy child is a byproduct of your behavior towards him?<\/p>\n

Be an understanding parent to know what your child wants from you. Otherwise he drifts too far away from you which making you feel a lost parent.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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