When in love your birthdays were great party days.<\/p>\n

He\\she bought you surprising gifts.<\/p>\n

Both dined in high-end restaurants.<\/p>\n

He\\she behaved lovey-dovey with you.<\/p>\n

But after marriage he\\she never remembers your birthdays.<\/p>\n

It is just an ordinary day for you.<\/p>\n

You are completely at loss by your disappointing marriage.<\/p>\n

7. Your spouse easily degrades you<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Before marriage your spouse is very appreciative.<\/p>\n

He\\she feels you are the best.<\/p>\n

But after marriage there is an about-turn in the attitude of your spouse.<\/p>\n

He\\she demeans you before his\\her friends\\relatives.<\/p>\n

He\\she makes scathing remarks about your ability.<\/p>\n

Your spouse also uses abusive words against you with ease.<\/p>\n

8. Your spouse becomes indifferent<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your spouse was all caring and loving before marriage.<\/p>\n

So you build up great dreams of a passionate and loving spouse.<\/p>\n

But you are in for the greatest disappointment in marriage.<\/p>\n

Yes.<\/p>\n

Your spouse shocks you by being uncaring and unloving.<\/p>\n

He\\she is never supportive to your emotional needs.<\/p>\n

He\\she lets you to fend for yourself when you are emotionally upset.<\/p>\n

You wonder why you married him\\her at all.<\/p>\n

9. You never spend quality time together<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You no longer have fun together.<\/p>\n

Both live in your own world.<\/p>\n

Your spouse never shares his\\her feelings with you.<\/p>\n

He\\she is not as humorous as he\\she was during your dating days.<\/p>\n

You feel utterly bored to spend time with him\\her.<\/p>\n

10. Your expectations come crashing down<\/strong><\/h3>\n

All your expectations about your spouse is dashed to nothingness after marriage.<\/p>\n

You feel shattered that your relationship is not what you expected it to be.<\/p>\n

You thought your married life will be fun. It is not so. It is a nerve-wracking responsibility.<\/p>\n

Your carefree days before marriage days are gone forever.<\/p>\n

You are plagued by never-ending family issues.<\/p>\n

Are you justified in feeling disappointed with your married life?<\/p>\n

Not exactly.<\/p>\n

Disappointing \u00a0marriage stems from your unrealistic and idealistic dreams about your spouse.<\/p>\n

It is a dream that can never become a reality. The only remedy is to be practical to accept your spouse as he\\she is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Disappointing\u00a0marriage\u00a0makes you feel emotionally shattered, doesn\u2019t it? Most of you think that your marriage is not as rosy as you thought it to be. In fact you have many disappointments about your spouse also. \u2018The biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations. This is especially true when it comes to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[534,424,240,267],"yoast_head":"\n