How can your marriage survive when you keep remembering things you should forget?<\/p>\n

Do you want to know the easy ways to forgive your spouse? – Here goes<\/h2>\n

1. Overlook the anger of your spouse<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Do not attach too much importance to angry words uttered by your spouse.<\/p>\n

It is often meaningless and without any mean motive.<\/p>\n

Your spouse might be under tremendous work related stress.<\/p>\n

He\\she might be off-color on that day.<\/p>\n

So, your spouse utters harsh words to vent out his\\her anger. Just to let off some steam, you know.<\/p>\n

Of course, it does not in any way justify his\\her angry insult.<\/p>\n

But you have to forgive your spouse if you want peace in your relationship.<\/p>\n

You experience many bitterness in your work place, don’t you?<\/p>\n

Your boss is often nasty. You have to cope up with uncooperative colleagues and snobbish higher officials.<\/p>\n

Do you leave your job for that?<\/p>\n

No.<\/p>\n

You overlook it and concentrate on your job, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

It is the same with your marriage also.<\/p>\n

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• Overlook his\\her minor faults.<\/li>\n
• Concentrate on his\\her good aspects.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  You can now easily forgive your spouse.<\/p>\n

  2. Make truce immediately<\/strong><\/h3>\n

  Do not build up resentment against your spouse. It has a snowballing effect.<\/p>\n

  When you do not forgive your spouse, your relationship might go to a stage where there can be no retracing back to normalcy.<\/p>\n

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  • So, forget your fights immediately.<\/li>\n
  • Smile at your spouse when he\\she apologizes.<\/li>\n
  • Never extend your anger.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Understand your spouse is your life partner and not your enemy.<\/p>\n

    3. No accusing games<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    I know you want to make your anger explicit to your spouse. The hurt you felt is very deep and intense.<\/p>\n

    So, you play the accusing game to the hilt.<\/p>\n

    Your anger extends for days as there is a procession of counter accusations from your spouse.<\/p>\n

    Each want to outwit the other.<\/p>\n

    Your fight seems to have no end in sight.<\/p>\n

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    • Never retire to bed with anger simmering against your spouse.<\/li>\n
    • Put an immediate full stop to your resentment.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      The end product of such accusing games is more anger and hostility \u2013 it drives a deep rift between you.<\/p>\n

      4. Keep your mind tuned to forgive your spouse<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Most of you sharpen your claws to have a showdown with your spouse.<\/p>\n

      You achieve nothing out of it.<\/p>\n

      Do you have grudge against your children when they disobey you?<\/p>\n

      You don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

      You immediately forgive them, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

      Do the same to your spouse.<\/p>\n

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      • Forgive him\\her instantly and immediately.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        This makes your relationship thrive and succeed.<\/p>\n

        5. Don\u2019t dig up old fights<\/strong><\/h3>\n

        Do you know you are unable to forgive your spouse because you never forget old fights?<\/p>\n

        Old fights are done with.<\/p>\n

        It no longer exists in your relationship.<\/p>\n

        If you dig up your old fights it instantly conveys the message that you had been harboring resentment against your spouse.<\/p>\n

        This makes your spouse bitter. Bitterness in relationship is very dangerous. It leads your marriage to a definite failure.<\/p>\n

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        • Accept the apology of your spouse without harping on past fights.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          It makes him\\her feel regretful for his\\her spurt of anger.<\/p>\n

          What is the conclusion of this much discussed topic?<\/h4>\n

          You are happy or unhappy in your married life by the way you deal with problems with your spouse.<\/p>\n

          When you are forgiving, you make your \u00a0spouse remorseful. He\\she vows never to fight with you.<\/p>\n

          Never harbor resentment and hostility against your spouse. Forget his\\her anger straightaway. Forgetting is the best way to forgive your spouse.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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