1. Help your spouse overcome depression<\/strong><\/h4>\n

When your spouse loses job he\\she goes into brooding depression.<\/p>\n

His\\her frustration makes him\\her argue with you unreasonably.<\/p>\n

Do you gear up to retaliate with vengeance as you were not the reason for his\\her losing the job?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Never sharpen your claws against your already depressed spouse.<\/p>\n

The hot words you utter makes your spouse feel inferior and unworthy.<\/p>\n

He\\she feels he\\she is not good enough.<\/p>\n

It makes the atmosphere at home very heated and oppressive.<\/p>\n

Your spouse direly needs your emotional and psychological support.<\/p>\n

It is now you should step in.<\/p>\n

Make your spouse feel that he\\she has not lost your love just because he\\she has lost job.<\/p>\n

2. Gear up to make firm financial decisions<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can no longer afford certain luxuries you enjoyed with the income of both.<\/p>\n

Now is the time to be frugal and economical.<\/p>\n

No more unnecessary outings.<\/p>\n

No more impulsive buying.<\/p>\n

No more eating in high-end restaurants.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get worked up that the new financial stress will stay forever. It is just a passing cloud.<\/p>\n

3. Make your children responsible<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your children had so far enjoyed the best things in life. When your spouse loses job they feel dejected when you say no to even tiniest of their wishes.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be harsh on them as they will never understand your predicament unless you explain it to them.<\/p>\n

Take your children into confidence.<\/p>\n

Be friendly with them.<\/p>\n

Tell them frankly the financial strain you are undergoing. Guide them to be responsible enough to curb their desires till their father\\mother finds a job.<\/p>\n

Make them happy by saying it is a very temporary phase which will teach them many precious lessons.<\/p>\n

Your children will definitely understand you.<\/p>\n

4. Help your spouse find another job<\/strong><\/p>\n

Never let your spouse brood about what has happened.<\/p>\n

He\\she should immediately try for another job.<\/p>\n

Make him\\her realize that it is a temporary unlucky phase in his\\her life.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make your spouse stressed by pestering him\\her to find job immediately.<\/p>\n

Discuss the job opportunities that come along.<\/p>\n

Help your spouse find a better option.<\/p>\n

5. Never lose hope<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is so easy to feel angry when your spouse loses job.<\/p>\n

You feel frustrated when the onus of maintaining the family falls on your shoulders.<\/p>\n

It is very tough on you indeed.<\/p>\n

Actually it is an ultimate test to your love.<\/p>\n

When you move away from your spouse is contempt, your marriage ends.<\/p>\n

But when you emotionally support him\\her your marriage survives and thrives.<\/p>\n

Do you know the criterion for an excellent marriage?<\/p>\n

It is the relentless support and emotional back up you give your spouse when he\\she needs it most.<\/p>\n

Is your love so fickle that you end it when your spouse loses job?<\/p>\n

Never let you love take a backseat.<\/p>\n

Put it right in the driver\u2019s seat by pulling your spouse out of his\\her quandary.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What happens to your married life when your spouse loses job? You face financial chaos. You are emotionally depressed. There is tremendous backlog of repayments to be met. Loans and debts drain your money further. During yester years husband went for work while the wife stayed back to look after the family. Women can no […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[789,1061,1060],"yoast_head":"\n