1. Express your love<\/strong><\/h4>\n\u2018I love you\u2019 these exciting words never will lose its sheen. When in love you repeated the words an umpteenth time.<\/p>\n
But after marriage it becomes obsolete in your vocabulary.<\/p>\n
It is true that after marriage, you have many family responsibilities. You are stressed and tired fulfilling your never-ending duties. You are mentally famished and sapped.<\/p>\n
Slowly you refrain from being romantic. \u00a0You become so practical that you think your spouse should understand your love even if you do not utter it.<\/p>\n
When you become practical, you become stale. Practicality makes your married life boring and dull.<\/p>\n
You are ready to show your anger, tension, unhappiness and frustration to your spouse.<\/p>\n
But you never show your love.<\/p>\n
Do you know your spouse feels bored when you are not caring and loving in a demonstrative way?<\/p>\n
Demonstrate your love by saying tender and adoring words.<\/p>\n
Exhibit your love through small romantic physical gestures.<\/p>\n
Hug your spouse.<\/p>\n
Smile at him\\her.<\/p>\n
Hold hands.<\/p>\n
He\\she loves it.<\/p>\n
It is the easiest way to overcome boredom in marriage.<\/p>\n
2. Be together when at home<\/strong><\/p>\nBoth are physically together in the same house but mentally you are too far away from each other.<\/p>\n
Work related stress makes both emotionally worn-out and exhausted. You do not have the energy to talk with your spouse. All you want is some peace.<\/p>\n
You feel interacting with your spouse will bring up arguments and fights.<\/p>\n
You watch TV while your spouse is busy with the laptop\\computer.<\/p>\n
Your children are busy with their homework.<\/p>\n
There is pin drop silence in your home.<\/p>\n
You have an uninteresting dinner together, with each occupied with his\\her own worries.<\/p>\n
Is this the scenario in your married life?<\/p>\n
Very dreary and unexciting.<\/p>\n
Being together does not mean being physically together in the same house.<\/p>\n
It is the emotional togetherness both should share to drive boredom in \u00a0marriage.<\/p>\n
\nSpend quality time with your spouse.<\/li>\n Keep communicating with him\\her.<\/li>\n Discuss family issues together.<\/li>\n Share laughter and fun.<\/li>\n Sit close to each other while watching TV.<\/li>\n Interact about your day at work place with your spouse. Ask her\\him about his\\her day\u2019s work.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nTalk, talk and talk with your spouse. Talk about anything and everything to drive away boredom in marriage. Never let silence rule your married life.<\/p>\n
Makes it stiflingly boring, you know.<\/p>\n
3. Plan a family outing<\/strong><\/p>\nNothing like an outing to relieve the stress and drive away boredom, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n
Family outings gives you tremendous emotional security.<\/p>\n
Save money save for a family vacation. It wipes clean boredom from marriage.<\/p>\n
Shopping is a great boredom reliever. But be careful to shop within budget as over spending makes you indulge in accusing games when there is paucity of funds for essential family expenditure.<\/p>\n
Going for long walks after the children are asleep.<\/p>\n
Chill out in a restaurant.<\/p>\n
Visit friends\\relatives.<\/p>\n
Watch your marriage album. You will be surprised by the nostalgic memories it evokes.<\/p>\n
4. Have common hobbies<\/strong><\/p>\nHave some common interest. Discussing it together makes both converse about it with involvement.<\/p>\n
Your hobbies can be movies, music, sports or gardening.<\/p>\n
Hobbies break the monotony of your daily routine.<\/p>\n
Cooking together is another form of boredom reliever.<\/p>\n
Try new recipes and cook mouth-watering dishes for the family.<\/p>\n
But the most important thing is to \u00a0enjoy your togetherness.<\/p>\n
5. Plan a date<\/strong><\/p>\nThe most romantic way to drive boredom from marriage is to plan a date together.<\/p>\n
Plan it at least a week before hand.<\/p>\n
You can leave your children with your parents. A day or two away from family responsibilities makes you lovers again.<\/p>\n
The waiting for your date is very thrilling.<\/p>\n
Forget family financial problems during your date.<\/p>\n
Put aside worries about your children.<\/p>\n
Your world now consists only of \u00a0both.<\/p>\n
Whisper sweet nothings.<\/p>\n
Relive your love days.<\/p>\n
Have excellent sex.<\/p>\n
It is your very ordinary lifestyle that makes you feel bored with your marriage. Try different things to liven up your relationship. Beat the routine to enjoy your marred life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Most of you face boredom in marriage, don\u2019t you? How can you be bored with your married life when you live with your spouse whom you ardently love?\u2019When entering into a marriage one ought to ask oneself: so you believe you are going to enjoy talking with this woman up into your old age? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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