{"id":5265,"date":"2017-05-05T01:49:06","date_gmt":"2017-05-05T05:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5265"},"modified":"2017-10-14T15:19:40","modified_gmt":"2017-10-14T19:19:40","slug":"spending-too-much-and-spending-too-little","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/spending-too-much-and-spending-too-little\/","title":{"rendered":"Top ways to balance between spending too much and spending too little in married life?"},"content":{"rendered":"
You often struggle to maintain a perfect balance between spending too much and spending too little in your married life, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n
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Don\u2019t worry.<\/p>\n
You are not alone.<\/p>\n
Most couples struggle to strike the right balance between spending too much and \u00a0spending too little.<\/a><\/p>\n When you spend too much your spouse calls you a spendthrift.<\/p>\n When you spend too little he\\she calls you miserly.<\/p>\n Both ways your spouse is completely unsatisfied with the way you spend your hard-earned money.<\/p>\n Your spouse has two contradictory views about spending money.<\/p>\n Not only that.<\/p>\n These highly opposing and contradictory financial wishes of your spouse makes you confused. You never really know how he\\she really wants you to spend money.<\/p>\n If you are too miserly to spend for the family your spouse feels completely deprived.<\/p>\n \u2018You are very stingy. You like your money better than me\u2019 he\\she accuses you.<\/p>\n But if you are very lavish with your money, you are taken aback by the accusing fingers he\\she points at you.<\/p>\n \u2018You are a spendthrift. You do not care for the financial security of our family. How can you throw away money without thinking about the many commitments we have?\u2019<\/p>\n You scratch your head in bewilderment about the ways to please your spouse in money matters.<\/p>\n Wait a moment.<\/p>\n There is a simple trick to handle this problem.<\/p>\n Never indulge in spending too much and spending too little.<\/p>\n You should rope walk the contradictory expectations of your spouse in money matters. You should spend and save. Neither here nor there, you know.<\/p>\n \u2018How do I do it? How will I have enough money to save if I spend all of it towards fulfilling the ever-changing wishes of my spouse?\u2019<\/p>\n Your dilemma is understandable.\u00a0 The market is flooded with new and exciting things that give you the much need status symbol. But remember you cannot have everything of it.<\/p>\n If both want all the good things the world has to offer it will be a never-ending procession. So put a brake to your greedy wishes.<\/p>\n Do you know when you are too tight-fisted in spending money you cannot enjoy a comfortable married life?<\/p>\n Swanky cars<\/p>\n Latest mobiles<\/p>\n Big bungalow<\/p>\n Costly furniture<\/p>\n These were considered luxuries during yester years.<\/p>\n In this modern world these are no longer luxuries, but essential status symbols.<\/p>\n So, you cannot completely deny your spouse all these things in the name of savings.<\/p>\n Your spouse might want a latest mobile phone. Your financial resources will not run dry if you let him\\her buy it.<\/p>\n Cars are costly things which you cannot afford to keep changing. Only the very rich can do it. So choose the right one for you.<\/p>\n Choose your electronic gadgets with care so that yours does not become obsolete very soon.<\/p>\n Always buy the best so that you need not keeping changing it.<\/p>\n Both earn well, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n It is time you plan a house of your own so that you have a roof over your head when you retire. I have seen many couples complaining that their spouse was not intelligent enough to buy a house when the going was good. They struggle to pay a hefty sum as rent with the meager money they have after their retirement.<\/p>\n The financial security of your family is a very important ingredient for you to enjoy a good marriage.<\/p>\n So plan your money sensibly to balance between spending too much and spending too little.<\/p>\n \u201cMoney may not buy happiness, but I’d rather cry in a Jaguar than on a bus.\u201d\u00a0\u2013 Francoise\u00a0Sagan V<\/strong><\/p>\n Save twenty percent of your hard-earned money. Never delay your savings thinking you need the money for other family commitments. If you do so, you will never save. Most of you fail to save because you always want to spend and save.<\/p>\n\n
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You can easily balance between spending too much and spending too little in married life by spending intelligently<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\u00a0Let us suppose you earn 4000 dollars. <\/strong><\/h3>\n