Most couples lose interest in each other few years after their marriage.<\/p>\n

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It is strange to find couples feeling bored with each other, after just a few years of togetherness.<\/p>\n

It is indeed strange.<\/p>\n

It is a fact, that many couples are disinterested in their married life.<\/p>\n

Couples do not understand that feeling bored with each other makes a mockery of the love they shared together.<\/p>\n

Are you one among such couples?<\/p>\n

Most of you feel your relationship slipping into mediocrity, after a few years of married life.<\/p>\n

Why does this happen to your relationship?<\/p>\n

As years go by, you find it impossible to retain the initial glow of your love.<\/p>\n

Where does your before-marriage excitement disappear?<\/p>\n

Why is your post-married life, uninteresting and unexciting?<\/p>\n

What happens in between that couples lose interest in each other?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The fault lies with both.<\/p>\n

Shall we look at the common relationship mistakes you often make?<\/p>\n

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• Your concentration shift from displaying love for your spouse, to fulfilling family responsibilities and commitments.<\/li>\n
• Your attention diverts towards your children.<\/li>\n
• You drain yourself to earn lots of money to make the financial future of your family secure.<\/li>\n
• You lead such a hectic lifestyle that you lose interest in interacting with your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  A few months ago, I had gone to an eye hospital for my annual checkup.<\/p>\n

  In front of me sat a middle-aged couple. I could see that they were very well off from their looks and the way they dressed.<\/p>\n

  What amazed me was their attitude towards each other.<\/p>\n

  The wife stared in front of her with a blank look, while the husband was busy with his mobile. The couples scarcely exchanged a word in the two hours I was there.<\/p>\n

  They were a classic example of a completely disinterested couple, weren’t they?<\/p>\n

  Were the couple a lone case of disinterested couples?<\/p>\n

  No.<\/p>\n

  They are not.<\/p>\n

  Many of you nod your head in affirmative that you too fall under that category of disinterested couple.<\/p>\n

  Many of you feel that your married life is dragging on and on, monotonously and repetitively.<\/p>\n

  But this was not the case when you were in love.<\/p>\n

  You were very interested in each other during your love days, weren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

  This is the reason you find your dating days very thrilling and exciting.<\/p>\n

  But after marriage, your interest in your spouse slowly dwindles into nothingness.<\/p>\n

  Here are some reasons why couples lose interest in each other after marriage<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • Your interest shifts from your spouse, to earning lots of money.<\/li>\n
  • You are more concentrated in making your family financially secure.<\/li>\n
  • You are not interested to notice the goodness of your spouse- This contributes to the lack of interest both display towards each other. <\/li>\n
  • You are so exhausted by your work-related tension that you no longer want to interact with your spouse.<\/li>\n
  • When you are bogged down by one responsibility after another, all you want is some time for yourself.<\/li>\n
  • You are fatigued and drained by the never ending household chores.<\/li>\n
  • Money matters makes you argue bitterly with your spouse. You find the diversified views about money that your spouse has not quite to your liking .<\/li>\n
  • Financial commitments of the family pressurizes you.<\/li>\n
  • There are lots of relationship issues between you. This makes you feel near impossible to retain the old love you had for your spouse.<\/li>\n
  • You seem to have nothing to talk to your spouse, after a few years of marriage.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Can you see the various reasons that contribute to the loss of  the vivaciousness you enjoyed during your love days?<\/p>\n

    Whenever you interact with your spouse, you invariably talk about some important family issues which often ends in an argument.<\/p>\n

    So, you feel it better to talk only when necessary.<\/p>\n

    Invariably silence rules your home.<\/p>\n

    When couples lose interest in each other, they easily get addicted to TV\\laptop\\mobile phones\\social media.<\/p>\n

    These are modern relationship destroyers.<\/p>\n

    Why do you change so drastically after marriage?<\/a><\/p>\n

    You had so much to talk with your spouse when you were in love. You talked about almost everything under the sky.<\/p>\n

    What happens after your marriage?<\/p>\n

    During the initial stages of your marriage, you are thrilled that you have married the person you ardently loved. The newness of the physical proximity of your spouse excites you.<\/p>\n

    But soon, you find your married life entirely different from your love days.<\/p>\n

    When you marry the person you passionately love, you have great expectations and hopes about a rsoy married life.<\/p>\n

    You feel that your spouse is the idealistic partner you had been searching for.<\/p>\n

    You also wrongly feel, that the excitement of your love days would continue after marriage also.<\/p>\n

    But you are in for a shock.<\/p>\n

    After marriage you see a totally different side of your spouse. A side you do not like at all. You feel your spouse is after all very mediocre and mundane.<\/p>\n

    Top relationship changes you lose interest in your spouse.<\/h3>\n

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    • Your care free days are gone forever.<\/li>\n
    • You become answerable to your spouse – Very frustrating and irritating to you.<\/li>\n
    • You do not have the patience to adjust, or tolerate the trivial faults of your spouse.<\/li>\n
    • You make a big issue out of your minor family problems.<\/li>\n
    • Certain habits of your spouse infuriates you.<\/li>\n
    • The gentleness in your voice gives way to roughness and toughness after marriage, making your spouse feel hostile towards you.<\/li>\n
    • You talk more in the mobile, than with your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Gradually your marriage becomes like an often watched movie- very predictable and very boring.<\/p>\n

      Never commit this relationship blunder.<\/p>\n

      Unless you keep communicating with your spouse, your married life stagnates and rusts.<\/p>\n

      Follow these easy tips to make your married life interesting<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      You teased your spouse with fun before marriage, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

      Do that after marriage also.<\/p>\n

      You had so much to talk to each other before marriage.<\/p>\n

      Show the same interest after marriage also.<\/p>\n

      Small talk with your spouse.  – topics like movies, gadgets, sports and film stars makes your interaction fun and sporting.  <\/p>\n

      Talking about interesting topics is one of the easiest way to make your married life lose its boredom and dullness. <\/p>\n

      Spend time watching your favorite shows together – cuddle up to each other.<\/p>\n

      Gardening is an excellent stress reliever.<\/p>\n

      Mutual hobbies make you converse with excitement.<\/p>\n

      Playing games together are good for your body and relationship.<\/p>\n

      Switch off your mobile phone when you are with your spouse. Never make it a substitute for your spouse.<\/p>\n

      Discussing interesting topics with humor and affability is a prime factor to retain interest in your spouse.<\/p>\n

      Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n

       “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” – Friedrich Nietzsche<\/strong><\/p>\n

      It is so easy to ruin your relationship by losing interest in your spouse.<\/p>\n

      Couples lose interest in each other only when they do not know the laws of making their marriage work.<\/p>\n

      Married life is like a plant.<\/p>\n

      Can a plant grow when you do not take care of it?<\/p>\n

      The plant will wither if unattended.<\/p>\n

      Your marriage also needs attention like a plant.<\/p>\n

      Water your relationship with your love.<\/p>\n

      The simplest way to nourish it is with unrelenting interest for your spouse.<\/p>\n

      I have started a new Youtube channel “Marriage Realities”<\/strong><\/p>\n

      It is a comprehensive relationship channel, which deals with many of the issues married couples face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Subscribe to my channel to understand your marriage in a new light.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Here is the link to “Marriage Realities”<\/strong><\/p>\n

      https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCNrT3KOkTU5ITQMyYnVsxGQ<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n

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