Do you presume staying in the same house with your spouse means real togetherness in your relationship?<\/a><\/p>\nThis is not real togetherness. It just means you are co-existing with your spouse.<\/p>\n
Do you feel doing your duties together makes you a unique couple?<\/p>\n
Being duty conscious just means you are very responsible and committed in your married life.<\/p>\n
Do you feel that going outing as a family is the real togetherness between you?<\/p>\n
You are merely fulfilling your duty towards your family.<\/p>\n
These are all basic necessities for your marriage to survive. And sadly this what most you think married life is all about.<\/p>\n
This sort of mundane life makes you feel longing and lost in your married life.<\/p>\n
Unless you have quality we time together you can never really enjoy true intimacy with your spouse.<\/p>\n
We time has the same special effect as the \u2018me time\u2019 you crave for in your life.<\/p>\n
\u2018Me time\u2019 is your personal time – Just being yourself without losing your individuality. Without \u2018me time\u2019 you feel your private space intruded upon. Doing things you like without the interference from your spouse is one of the top aspect of a happy marriage.<\/p>\n
\u2018We time\u2019 in marriage is the precious and personal moments you enjoy with your spouse.<\/p>\n
Just the two of you!<\/p>\n
Without the intrusion of anyone!<\/p>\n
Not even your children!<\/p>\n
Do you know you never spend enough time with your spouse?<\/p>\n
Analyze your married life!<\/p>\n
\n- You are always racing against time.<\/li>\n
- You work yourself haggard for the betterment of your family.<\/li>\n
- You are stressed and worried by your work related tension.<\/li>\n
- Your interaction with your spouse is almost always aggressive and quarrelsome.<\/li>\n
- You are very duty bound, but not love bound.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Hot words, anger, indifference and disinterest plagues your married life. Work related stress make you highly strung up. You return home dead tired and famished. You just do not have the mood to interact with your spouse.<\/p>\n
If at all you talk with your spouse your interaction ends in arguments and fights. It makes you wonder whether you had married the wrong person. Your relationship soon loses its vibrancy and vitality.<\/p>\n
When you were in love you had many common interest. You had so much to talk to each other.<\/p>\n
How is it after marriage you do not seem to have anything in common?<\/p>\n
It is because you take your commitments too much to heart and feel tensed when you are unable to fulfill it.<\/p>\n
Instead of sharing your emotions with your spouse you vent your frustration on him\\her. You make him\\her resent you by playing the accusing game. You empty your disappointment on him\\her.<\/p>\n
What is the reason for this diseased state of your marriage?<\/p>\n