{"id":5526,"date":"2017-11-27T21:24:29","date_gmt":"2017-11-28T02:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5526"},"modified":"2018-03-13T02:47:13","modified_gmt":"2018-03-13T06:47:13","slug":"spending-quality-time-with-your-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/spending-quality-time-with-your-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"Top reasons why spending quality time with your spouse is the best way to build intimacy in marriage \u2013 Your real togetherness"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you know spending quality<\/strong> time<\/strong> with<\/strong> your<\/strong> spouse<\/strong> is your real togetherness?<\/p>\n

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\u2018I don\u2019t want to be like couples who end up in bed watching TV\u2019 a dialogue from the movie Sex and the City is very applicable to the marriage scenario of most couples.<\/p>\n

You assume watching TV together is a great sign of intimacy you have with your spouse.<\/p>\n

Of course it feels good to relax in the bed with him\\her to watch your favorite movie or any shows you like. It gives you a feeling of togetherness.<\/p>\n

Shall I ask you a question?<\/p>\n

Do you prefer watching TV or interacting with your spouse?<\/p>\n

Your invariable preference is TV.<\/p>\n

You enjoy watching TV together as it is a time when you do not have any arguments with your spouse.<\/p>\n

You comment about the actors, the direction and the screen play \u2013 all non-controversial topics, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Does it in any way help you to understand each other?<\/p>\n

No.<\/p>\n

It does not.<\/p>\n

You watch TV, feel tired and retire to bed feeling you have spent quality time with your spouse.<\/p>\n

It is fine when watching TV is just a minor part of your togetherness. But when it becomes your entire routine at home you do not actually communicate with your spouse the way you should.<\/p>\n

Spending quality time with your spouse definitely makes positive changes in your relationship.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

How do you actually spend time with your spouse when at home?<\/p>\n