{"id":5553,"date":"2017-05-24T01:22:51","date_gmt":"2017-05-24T05:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5553"},"modified":"2021-07-05T08:48:59","modified_gmt":"2021-07-05T13:48:59","slug":"handling-break-up-of-your-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/handling-break-up-of-your-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Handling break-up of your marriage -Top 5 never- to- do -things"},"content":{"rendered":"

The break<\/strong>–up of your marriage<\/strong> has a devastating impact on you, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

\"break-up<\/p>\n

You marry the person you ardently love. You passionately took your marriage vows, meaning every word of it. You emotionally felt, that only death could part you from your spouse.<\/p>\n

You felt that much in cloud nine on your wedding day.\u00a0<\/p>\n

You were smug, that your marriage would last forever. You dream of a problem-free relationship. You are emotional, that nothing could come between your love for each other.\u00a0<\/p>\n

But as years go by, everything about your married life, takes a turn for the worst. There is absolutely nothing rosy in your relationship. In fact, everything about your married life, looks bleak and barren.<\/p>\n

You and your spouse, seem to have nothing in common between you. Bitterness and resentment rules your relationship. You cease to talk with each other.\u00a0<\/p>\n

And the end of your marriage, becomes inevitable and predictable.<\/a><\/p>\n

When the break-up of your marriage happens, it takes time for you to digest the fact that your marriage has ended. You are emotionally shaken, that the togetherness you enjoyed with your spouse has shriveled into nothingness.<\/p>\n

Why does the break-up of your marriage happen?<\/a><\/p>\n

The fault lies with both. Both live your married life, casually, without making any efforts to nurture your relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you do not nurture your relationship, you soon outgrow your spouse. Your lost expectations, makes you feel that you have married a wrong person, not at all suited to you.<\/p>\n

You become bitter with disappointment, at choosing the wrong person as your life partner.<\/p>\n

Instead of reviving your love, you lose your marriage.<\/p>\n

After the break up of your marriage happens, you are all confused about the ways to lead your life.\u00a0<\/p>\n

There are lots of never-to-do-things after the break-up of your marriage<\/strong><\/h2>\n

1.Never fall into depression<\/strong><\/h3>\n

It is very natural to feel depressed, when your marriage is lost. Many a time, you feel you could have saved your marriage.<\/p>\n

You are remoreful, that you could have adjusted to your spouse.<\/p>\n

You feel painful and anguished, that all the love you had for each other finally meant nothing.<\/p>\n

Yet another mess, you find in your life after your break-up, is your financial mess.<\/p>\n

Your financial status, becomes questionable after your break up. You have to mete out all your financial commitments on your sole income.\u00a0<\/p>\n

You now ask yourself, whether you have done the right thing by ending your marriage.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Feeling angry and frustrated by the break-up of your marriage, is a very normal feeling.<\/p>\n

You are after all human, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

But to think, that your world has ended is a big no.<\/p>\n

You have to come out of your sorrow.<\/p>\n

Understand that time is a great healer. Allow it to heal your wounded feelings.<\/p>\n

2. Never spy on your former spouse<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You are naturally furious with your spouse for having broken your marriage. In your fury, you do a lot of unwanted things.<\/p>\n

Instead of deleting your former spouse from your life, you prolong your agony by spying on him\\her.<\/p>\n

This is a very wrong thing to do. If you truly want to get out of your miserable marriage, you must let your former spouse disappear from your life.<\/p>\n

Do not spy on the whereabouts of your ex-spouse.<\/p>\n

Do not follow the social media activities of your erstwhile spouse.<\/p>\n

Do not text or message your ex-spouse.<\/p>\n

Do not try to meet him\\her.<\/p>\n

Do not offer any explanations on your behalf, as it is not necessary<\/p>\n

3<\/strong>.\u00a0Never remarry on the rebound<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Remarrying on the rebound, is one mistake you should never make. After the break-up of your marriage, your feelings are raw and vivid.<\/p>\n

Your mind yearns for some sort of consolation.<\/p>\n

When someone offers you comfort, you misconstrue it as love. Your aching mind tells you, that you have found a person who would be sympathetic towards what happened in your life.<\/p>\n

You should remember that true love does not come out of sympathy. If at all you feel so, it is going to be a very temporary feeling. If your second love fails, you would not be able to bear it.<\/p>\n

Once bitten twice shy, should be your motto.<\/p>\n

Always think twice, before marrying again.\u00a0<\/p>\n

4. Never keep brooding about the break-up of your marriage<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Do not spend your time, brooding and worrying about your broken marriage.<\/p>\n

This will only make you feel even more miserable. Do not let your\u00a0 depressing thoughts, to engulf your life. Thrust aside such unwanted thoughts, which threaten your peace.<\/p>\n

You should definitely come out of\u00a0 your depression.<\/p>\n

Go on a vacation.<\/p>\n

Concentrate on your work.<\/p>\n

Mingle with people.<\/p>\n

Divert your mind from your former spouse.<\/p>\n

Confide your feelings to a person, who truly cares for you. Consoling words makes you stabilize your chaotic mind.<\/p>\n

5. Never backbite about your former spouse<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Of course, it is only natural that you are angry with your spouse for the break-up of your marriage. You want to vent your frustration by talking ill about him\\her.<\/p>\n

You are totally justified in your anger. But when you keep talking about your former spouse, your anger remains vivid. Your grief gets rekindled.<\/p>\n

Never ever do that. Make your break-up with your spouse, complete. You should forget your former spouse, once for all.<\/p>\n

Renew your life. You must understand that you have your own life to live.<\/p>\n

Conclusion\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u2018When you’re going through a breakup, you should just let yourself feel everything so you can get over it as opposed to pretending everything’s okay and dragging it out.\u00a0\u2013 Hanna Simone<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you marry your spouse, you never ever think that your marriage could end in a divorce court. You always wanted to your marriage to flourish and thrive.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

But when your break up happens, you have no other go than to take it in your stride. Your life has to go on.\u00a0<\/p>\n

You must find your own happiness. And your happiness lies within you. Make your world happy. You owe it to yourself.<\/p>\n

\nhttps:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-have-started-a-new-YouTube-channel-called-_Marriage-3.mp4<\/a><\/video><\/div>\n\n\n

Here is the link to “Marriage Realities”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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