{"id":5561,"date":"2017-05-19T01:00:51","date_gmt":"2017-05-19T05:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5561"},"modified":"2018-04-20T08:55:28","modified_gmt":"2018-04-20T13:55:28","slug":"expectations-vs-reality-in-married-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/expectations-vs-reality-in-married-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 shocking transformations in the expectations vs reality in married life"},"content":{"rendered":"
\u00a0<\/strong>Expectations<\/strong> vs reality<\/strong> in<\/strong> married<\/strong> life<\/strong> has many mind-blowing differences and disappointments in store for you.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You have many expectations about your spouse before marriage. But end up with intense disappointments after marriage. This is a common modern marriage scenario.<\/p>\n Why is expectations vs reality in married life a shocking experience for you?<\/a><\/p>\n The answer is simple.<\/p>\n Your expectations are based on your perfectionistic imagination about your spouse.<\/p>\n Imagination has no limits, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n You weave many idealistic images about your spouse before marriage. And he\\she more than fulfills your expectations before your marriage.<\/p>\n Both put your best foot forward during your dating days. This makes you feel sure that your marriage will be idealistic and heavenly. You like many qualities about your spouse which makes you dream about a perfect marriage.<\/p>\n But after marriage, the qualities you admired in him\\her is replaced by qualities, you dislike.<\/p>\n Yes!<\/p>\n Your expectations vs reality in married life <\/a>has many shocking disillusionment in store for you.<\/p>\n There are times you find it difficult to cope up with your crashed expectations.<\/p>\n You are confirmed that your love for each other will never lose its sheen. You are sure that your rosy love days would continue throughout your married life.<\/p>\n Both whisper sweet nothings before marriage.<\/p>\n You spend many hours talking with each other before marriage.<\/p>\n You just cannot wait for your wedding day.<\/p>\n You take your marriage vows emotionally and feel on the top of the world.<\/p>\n Though you love each other, both do not have time to display it.<\/p>\n Why?<\/p>\n After your marriage, many responsibilities are thrust on you. You can no longer afford to be carefree.<\/p>\n Your concentration shifts from being lovey dovey, to being committed to your family duties. Your spouse does the same.<\/p>\n This makes both feel frustrated, unloved, and uncared. You are utterly disappointed that you have permanently lost the newness of your love.<\/p>\n In your crazy love for each other, you do not attach great importance to money before your marriage. You are emotional to feel that your money belongs to your spouse also.<\/p>\n You are lavish in gifting your spouse. You lend money easily whenever he\\she asks you.<\/p>\n You are sure money would never intrude into the love you have for each other.<\/p>\n After marriage, you feel your earnings are your own.<\/p>\n You are angry that your spouse leeches you off your hard-earned money.<\/p>\n You think twice before spending for your spouse.<\/p>\n You are no longer interested in helping him\\her financially.<\/p>\n You fight bitterly about sharing of financial commitments of your family.<\/p>\n Before marriage, you have great dreams about your sex life.<\/p>\n In the initial days of your marriage, your sex life excites and thrills you. Both have regular sex.<\/p>\n You satisfy the sexual needs of your spouse with eager willingness.<\/p>\n After a few years of marriage, sex becomes a dull routine with you.<\/p>\n Why?<\/p>\nNow the war between expectations vs reality in married life begins to shatter your mental <\/strong><\/h2>\n
peace.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
1. Expectation about love before marriage –<\/strong>Ever green love<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Reality about love after marriage –<\/strong>Dried out love<\/strong><\/h3>\n
2. Expectation about money before marriage –<\/strong>Money does not matter<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Reality about money after marriage –<\/strong>Money does matter<\/strong><\/h3>\n
3. Expectation about sex before marriage –\u00a0<\/strong>Our sex life will always be exciting<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Reality about sex after marriage –<\/strong>Our sex life is boring and routine<\/strong><\/h3>\n