Most of you yearn for a caring and daring husband, don’t you?<\/p>\n

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But you are frequently disappointed.<\/p>\n

You often feel your husband is insensitive to your feelings. You also feel he is emotionally detached from you.<\/p>\n

You want your husband to be more expressive in his interaction with you, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Your husband is not very daring also. He often shies away from handling family issues. He lets you bear all the family problems by yourself.<\/p>\n

You feel overburdened and overtaxed, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

You crave for him to shoulder family issues along with you.<\/p>\n

Feel satisfied that you are not alone in wishing for a caring and daring husband.<\/p>\n

It is a worldwide complaint almost all women have.<\/p>\n

Yes.<\/p>\n

A caring and daring husband does not seem to exist at all,does he?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Your common complaints about your husband<\/strong><\/p>\n

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• My husband does not care for me.<\/li>\n
• He is very stiff and deadpan when at home.<\/li>\n
• He does not respond to my love and care.<\/li>\n
• He shies away from family problems.<\/li>\n
• He lets me slog alone with loads of household chores.<\/li>\n
• He is glued to the laptop\\ computer as if his life depended on it.<\/li>\n
• He does not have direct eye contact with me.<\/li>\n
• He only half listens when I talk with him.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  This makes you wonder whether your husband loves you at all.<\/p>\n

  You have many emotional needs about your husband<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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  • You want your husband to appreciate you.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to listen to you.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to share your household chores.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to communicate with love.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to be humorous and funny.<\/li>\n
  • You crave for open demonstration of love.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to buy things for you.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to be responsible.<\/li>\n
  • You want him to handle family problems along with you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    How many of you are blessed with such a caring and daring husband?<\/p>\n

    A negligible few, I am sure.<\/p>\n

    Is your husband really wooden and unfeeling as you think?<\/a><\/p>\n

    Is he a coward?<\/p>\n

    Not really!<\/p>\n

    The male world of your husband is totally different from your womanly world.<\/p>\n

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    • Your life revolves around your family. To your husband family is just a part of his life.<\/li>\n
    • You always worry about your children, their future and the financial status of your family. \u00a0Your husband lives for the day.<\/li>\n
    • You handle family issues deftly. \u00a0He does not have the capacity to handle it.<\/li>\n
    • You have the energy to do your never ending household chores. Your husband is plain lazy to do any work when at home.<\/li>\n
    • You are brave when it comes to family issues. Your husband easily cracks under the pressure.<\/li>\n
    • You go towards family problems. He moves away from it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Phew.<\/p>\n

      Very opposite to you, isn\u2019t he?<\/p>\n

      The sad fact is that your husband is not well equipped to handle family life with your efficiency.<\/p>\n

      The differences between both in handling family issues<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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      • You have the courage to handle any family problems. He does not.<\/li>\n
      • You have the patience to look after your children. He does not.<\/li>\n
      • You can multitask with competence. He can never hope to match you in this aspect.<\/li>\n
      • You plan ahead for the future of your family. Your husband does not look beyond today.<\/li>\n
      • You remember your family commitments like pending bills, your child\u2019s school fees, the repayments and installments with pencil sharp memory power. He is ever forgetful.<\/li>\n
      • You have extraordinary management skills in dealing with all sorts of family issues. He is all at seas in managing the family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        He fails miserably when there are sudden emergency issues in the family. His inability makes him keep a safe distance\u00a0from the\u00a0nerve wracking\u00a0family problems. He knows he is incapable whereas you are very capable.<\/p>\n

        You are irritated by his silence and seeming indifference towards family problems.<\/p>\n

        You want to yell and scream at him to be more responsible, don\u2019t you?<\/a><\/p>\n

        You crumble inside in desperate anguish that he does not care for you.<\/p>\n

        You are angry when he does not appreciate you.<\/p>\n

        \u2018He can at least appreciate me so that I feel he values my contribution to the family\u2019 you fume to yourself.<\/p>\n

        He does care for you, only he does not show it openly.<\/p>\n

        He is responsible and committed to the family, but he thinks his responsibility ends when he earns for the family.<\/p>\n

        He does appreciate you, only that he does not say it loudly.<\/p>\n

        He is totally dependent on you to handle family problems. He does not have the energy, patience and ability to tackle it.<\/p>\n

        Do you want to know the reason you cannot find a caring and daring husband?<\/strong><\/p>\n

        The answer is very simple!<\/p>\n

        You might be weak physically. But your mental strength is as powerful and strong as iron. You easily handle family issues with confidence.<\/p>\n

        Your husband might be stronger than you physically. But he is very weak and fragile mentally and psychologically.<\/p>\n

        He cracks under pressure when there are extreme family problems.<\/p>\n

        \u2018Fine! Let him be what he is. But does my husband care and love me?\u2019 You often break your head unable to know what he thinks of you.<\/p>\n

        Why is your husband silent and distant towards you?<\/p>\n

        Why is he tight-lipped when at home?<\/p>\n

        His seeming indifference is his defense mechanism.<\/p>\n

        Defense mechanism against what? You might wonder.<\/p>\n

        From your nagging.<\/p>\n

        Your husband is basically egoistic. He needs your respect. He wants you to make him feel that he is the head of the family.<\/p>\n

        But you make him feel inadequate in no uncertain terms.<\/p>\n

        You bruise his ego by comparing him with his more successful friends\\colleagues. \u00a0His male ego never accepts it.<\/p>\n

        So to shut out your words from hurting him he builds a fence of protection around him through his silence.<\/p>\n

        Why can\u2019t he be daring?<\/p>\n

        He is indeed daring. He is very smart in his work and efficient in tackling work related problems. He is respected for his talent in his work place.<\/p>\n

        Why doesn\u2019t he show the same prowess in handling problems in family also?<\/p>\n

        You see, dealing with work related problems is entirely different from handling family issues.<\/p>\n

        Work related problems needs knowledge, hard work and improvisation. He has lots of it.<\/p>\n

        But family problems need pure mental guts and common sense. He has nothing of it.<\/p>\n

        Work related problems are practical and rational. Your practical husband handles it with aplomb.<\/p>\n

        You need emotional intelligence to handle relationship problems. You need common sense, patience, and endless energy to look after the family.<\/p>\n

        You are just made for that.<\/p>\n

        Your husband is not built for that.<\/p>\n

        He has immense trust that you have incredible capacity to manage the family.<\/p>\n

        Inwardly he appreciates your smartness. He cannot do without you. He feels lost when you are not around. A caring and daring husband does exist silently. Not openly as you want to.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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