{"id":5890,"date":"2018-02-02T07:41:02","date_gmt":"2018-02-02T12:41:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5890"},"modified":"2021-05-02T06:51:12","modified_gmt":"2021-05-02T11:51:12","slug":"doubting-your-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/doubting-your-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"Doubting your spouse – 8 sensible solutions"},"content":{"rendered":"
There are many a time you indulge in doubting your spouse, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n
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But you do not understand that the impact of your suspicion can literally turn your relationship into ashes.<\/a><\/p>\n What makes you suspect your spouse?<\/p>\n Often, your reasons are silly and a fabrication of your imagination.<\/p>\n When your spouse is late from work, you feel he\\she is seeing someone behind your back.<\/p>\n When he\\she is friendly with the opposite sex, it is always a sign of extramarital affair to you.<\/p>\n You never realize that when you keep on doubting your spouse, your relationship nose dives to failure.<\/a><\/p>\n Why do you doubt your spouse?<\/p>\n Marriage survives and thrives on mutual trust. When you have all sorts of doubts about your spouse, you cannot enjoy a moment of peace in your marriage.<\/p>\n When you do not respect your spouse, you find it comfortable to spy and snoop on him\\her with the sole reason of demeaning him\\her.<\/p>\n You want your spouse to be all yours 24\\7. When your spouse takes time off for his\\her much needed personal space; you will have nothing of it.<\/p>\n You doubting nature makes you visualize unwanted things about your spouse. You literally bombard your spouse with doubting questions.<\/p>\n “Where have you been?”<\/p>\n “Who was with you?”<\/p>\n “Why are you late?”<\/p>\n “Why didn\u2019t you pick up my calls?”<\/a><\/p>\n Questions which clearly depict that you are suspicious about your spouse.<\/p>\n “I think my husband is having an affair” my friend Veena blurted out.<\/p>\n “Why do you say so? I think you are being unreasonably suspicious about Kannan” I told her firmly.<\/p>\n Kannan, her husband, was also a good friend of mine.<\/p>\n “Do you know he is persistently late from work for the past three months? When I asked him, he says he was in the office. But I know he wasn\u2019t” Veena fumed.<\/p>\n \u2018Are you spying on Kannan?\u2019 I asked her worryingly.<\/p>\n “Why shouldn\u2019t I? I asked his friends about his work timings. They say he leaves his office as usual. So, he has been lying to me. I am sure he is seeing someone. I now fight with my husband daily about this” my friend was confirmed that her husband was having an extra marital affair.<\/p>\n I knew Kannan would never cheat Veena. He had a different story to tell.<\/p>\n “I go to see my parents after my office hours. My wife never likes them. So, I have to see them without her knowing about it. If I tell her the truth she will definitely prevent me from seeing my parents\u2019 Kannan fumed with anger.<\/p>\n Veena\u2019s suspicion was actually a fabrication of her imagination. And I felt that Kannan too could have confided to my friend about his visits to his parents. He was just being a dutiful son, nothing else.<\/p>\n Yes.<\/p>\n\n
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