Mostly you refrain from having sex, when you are not compatible with your spouse. It is because, when  you do not have emotional understanding with your spouse, you are not attracted to him\\her.<\/p>\n

When your spouse is abusive, you will not feel physically attracted to him\\her.<\/p>\n

When both become indifferent towards the feelings of each other, sex becomes non-existent in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Not being emotionally bonded with your spouse, is one of the topmost reason behind your sexless marriage. Your lack of emotional bonding, leads to lack of physical bonding between you.<\/p>\n

So, you should practice compatibility with your spouse. You must adjust and tolerate the minor faults of your spouse.<\/p>\n

Love your spouse, for what he\\she is. Concentrate on the good qualities of your spouse. When overlook the things you do not like about your spouse, and appreciate his\\her good qualities, physical attraction between you will set in.<\/p>\n

2. Be presentable to attract your spouse<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you roam around wearing dirty clothes, your spouse will never feel attracted to you.<\/p>\n

Do you know your good and presentable looks contribute a great deal to kindle his\\her sexual interest in you?<\/p>\n

When you are well dressed, with your body assets well accentuated, your spouse instantly feels physically drawn towards you.<\/p>\n

Yes.<\/p>\n

Your good physical appearance does matter to make your spouse feel sexually interested in you.<\/p>\n

3. Touch each other more often<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most of you do  not understand the importance of kisses and hugs in making you feel intimate towards each other. In fact, such small physical gestures of love draws you towards your spouse.<\/p>\n

Touch each other often.<\/p>\n

A pat in the cheeks, a tight hug, running your fingers through the hair of your spouse, are tiny but beautiful love gestures, that make both feel the fire of intimacy igniting in you.<\/p>\n

4. Spend romantic time together, when your children are asleep<\/strong><\/p>\n

The time after your children go to sleep should be your romantic time. You can enjoy the proximity of each other, without the disturbance from your children.<\/p>\n

Keep the light in the room subdued. Dim light kindles your sexual interest.<\/p>\n

Listen to good music and dance to the tune.<\/p>\n

The sound of the music, and the physical nearness of your spouse finally ends in having excellent sex with him\\her.<\/p>\n

5. Flirt with your spouse<\/strong><\/p>\n

Who says you cannot flirt with your spouse?<\/p>\n

You can.<\/p>\n

It is a great sexual instigator.<\/p>\n

Wink at your spouse, when your children are not looking.<\/p>\n

Have secret signals which shows your wish to have sex with your spouse. It makes both wait for your intimacy.<\/p>\n

6. Be understanding and kind towards your spouse<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you emotionally disregard your spouse, it makes him\\her disinterested in having sex with you.<\/p>\n

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• You should respect your spouse.<\/li>\n
• You must be kind towards him\\her.<\/li>\n
• You must be trusting.<\/li>\n
• You must be communicative.<\/li>\n
• You must listen and agree with your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  Are you wondering what these qualities have to do with sex?<\/p>\n

  Almost everything.<\/p>\n

  When your spouse feels well cared, he\\she feels drawn towards you. This finally leads to good sex between you.<\/p>\n

  Conclusion<\/h4>\n

  \u201cSex can be such a stark barometer for a marriage.\u201d – John Eldredge <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

  Can you see how sexless marriage is a byproduct of many things?<\/p>\n

  It is true that after many years of married life, your interest in sex diminishes. But being totally away from being physically intimate with your spouse, makes your relationship lack excitement. Never ever make your marriage plunge into such a relationship disaster.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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